This enhances #61423, which removed the gating of desktop-managers from
being linked to the xserver's state.
This, though, brought in xterm into all systems, even those without X
servers.
This change sets the *default* of the xterm desktop-manager to the state
of the xserver, keeping it enabled by default as a sane fallback.
The xterm desktop-manager can still be enabled or disabled as needed,
without it being affected by xserver's state.
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