Split outputs mean that the "include" folder from PHP gets placed into a
"dev" derivation. However php-config is not aware of this, which means
that compiling extensions with phpize fails with an error about being
unable to find header files (see #24357, #24420). This fixes that by:
1. passing the `--includedir` flag to `configure` so that `php-config`
gives the correct paths.
2. moving the `phpize` and `php-config` scripts and man pages to the
dev derivation, to prevent cylic references.
3. ensuring that the `configure` script arguments are stripped from
all binaries, including `php-embed`, to prevent cyclic references.
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