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Archive-name: Bondage/crakwhip.txt
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Archive-title: Crack of the Whip
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A great deal of talk has been bandied around about that secret deviation,
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S&M. Most of it has been in whispers, or in the privacy of one's own bedroom
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late at night when sleeplessness shatt ers the walls between daylight shock and
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midnight wonderings.
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Today, we shatter the chains of the mind that bind the secrets to the dark.
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There are many levels of S&M, running from the simple act of spur-of-the-
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moment trying one's mate to the bedposts with stocking to the true sado/
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masochism that goes on in proffessionally-run 'dungeons'. And not all of the
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deviations can be labeled as S&M -- some runs more to the 'B&D'.
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The subtle difference betwwen the two is fairly simple. B&D (or bondage &
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discipline) is much more playful, less painful practice of sado/masochism.
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A great many people practice B&D without understanding that it is related
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to S&M. Tying your mate to the bed, using a feather or string duster to stimu-
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late new sensations in new areas, even role-playing where one is the Dominant
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and the other the Submissive are just a few examples. Some forms run higher up
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the rung, and though bordering on S&M, do not go over the edge entirely, for
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the only intent is to cause more powerful orgasms and stimulation.
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Bondage & Discipline can take many more subtle forms than simple mechanism-
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use, such as whips and masks. Bondage can also cover 'Mummification' (wherin
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the Submissive is wrapped tightly in Ace bandages from head to toe and left
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alone in a room with his or her own thoughts); Voyuerism, where the Dominant
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hides in a closet or some such place and watches as the Submissive masturbates;
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or the practice of using whips, masks, the hint of leather, or verbal threats
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as to what will be done to the Submissive's body should they not do as they
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are told.
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S&M deals with whips and leather and masks, but on a more violent level
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wherein one may be suspended from the ceiling, dragged abut by a chain or rope
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connected to nipple (or any other places they can be found) rings, kneeling as
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the Dominant drips wax down upon the Submissive's bodily parts, racks, burns,
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etc...
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S&M is a serious game. B&D is a game that gives the same sensation of ex-
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citement, but it is still only a GAME!
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The one thing that they have most in common, no matter what level the games
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are being played upon, is trust and communication between the practitioners.
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One understanding that seems to be common is that, before getting into the
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game, neither of the participants are to indulge in alcohol or drugs. Control
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over the game is the responsibility of all involved! If you were willing to
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try it, even once, you certainly would not feel safe in the hands of someone
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who was drunk and in total control over the whip, chains, or anal beads! BOTH
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must be clear of mind to know whenn to call a halt to things.
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Unfortunately, the word 'STOP!' can be used in many situations, none of
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which have anything to do with actually stopping! Therefore, 'Code Words' must
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be agreed upon well in advance, and any Dominant worth their salt will go
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through everything with you well in advance of the game. The Dominant must
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know what you are ready for, what you DO NOT want done to your body or mind,
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and what level of pain you can withstand, though you yourself are uncertain as
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to that point.
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Since the Dominant is always in control of the situation, it is their resp-
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onsibility to see that you are enjoying yourself, not reduced to a whimpering
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pile of flesh whose mind has run and hidden itself away too far into the depths.
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The 'Code Words' are the stop-gap in the game. If something is becoming too
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painful, or if you suddenly find you are claustrophobic AFTER you have been
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locked into a full-face mask, YOU are the one who must tell the Dominant that
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you are unconfortable or in real pain that is unacceptable. Choose words that
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will come easily to mind. Some examples are: 'Dog', 'Cat', 'Rug', 'Chevy' or
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'Ford' ... something you are VERY familiar with, and will not easily forget.
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Talk to the Dominant about your choice of 'Code Word', and once uttered, the
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game will be stopped, and you can both decide whether it is completely over, or
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if you want to go to something less terrifying or trying.
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The real dangers in both B&D and S&M are in finding yourself with the wrong
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person in control. You (as the Submissive) must TRUST your Dominant to follow
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your decisions immediately and completely! A good Dominant will continually
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check you and your bindings to make sure you are enjoying the experience and
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not suffering too much pain. Or that blood is being cut off to vital areas!
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Some hints to the novice game-player are: NEVER use a whip unless you have
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practiced! And Practiced! AND PRACTICED!!! Use balloons as targets, and try
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to wrap your whip around them several times without breaking them. If you can,
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you are on your way to becoming proficient. Remember, whips can pop an eye or
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testicle out, or, with the wrong blow, cut an artery or leave scars! It can be
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a toy, yes, but they were first created as WEAPONS, and should be treated with
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great respect. (If you consider how many people get shot EVERY DAY with un-
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loaded guns, you have a general idea of how a weapon can be misused or misun-
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derstood!)
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Start off slow. Use feather dusters and soft bondings such as stockings,
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clothesline (not the plastic kind, the cotton type! Both clothesline and sto-
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ckings tend to slip tighter!) or, if you use handcuffs, make certain the key is
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in a safe, quickly-reached place. If you use clothesline, wash it in your
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machine at LEAST three times, and soak it overnight in fabric softener.
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Always tie knots so that they can be immediately slipped off by the
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Dominant, and when tying hands together, make certain the wrists are facing
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towards each other and the knot is to the side. Knots can slip around and
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tighter very easily, and the chance of seriously cutting off needed blood
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supply is dramatically increased when the wrists are facing OUTWARD!
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Decide on your codewords well ahead of time and REMEMBER them!
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Always try your chosen equipment out on YOURSELF before you use them on
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someone else! Running a whip over your back will show you how it feels to
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other people, and a few whacks will teach you that there is such a thing as too
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much!! Leather articles can have edges or 'catches' or buckles that will be
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painful. Take some medium sandpaper and run it over your equipment, then take
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finer sandpaper and repeat the process until you can wear it in total comfort.
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If you have ever had a 'Seven Gates of Hell' contraption slid onto your cock
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or into your vagina right out of the shop, you will have already learned the
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important lessons of 1) trying it out on yourself first, and 2) yes, you really
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have to sandpaper damn near EVERYTHING that is leather!
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Sandpapering is a neccessity, not a frivolity!
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One does not HAVE to be jaded or bored to explore these new reaches, nor do
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you HAVE to take things to the 'wilder side'. Remember, 'toys' tend to make
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your body build up a certain resistance to sensation after a time. Pace your-
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self, and do not try to go beyond what is fun and pleasuable.
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During sex, your body puts out a certain level of natuaral 'novacaine'.
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What may hurt one time may not be neccessarily so the second, depending on
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your level of stimulation. Be wary at ALL times!
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Be certain to trust your Dominant! Ask questions, no matter how silly they
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may sound. With an experienced partner in B&D or S&M, they know the control
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neccessary and the trust one must have. A good Dominant will NEVER take things
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further than you want them to go, because it simply is not fun anymore!
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The thrill of these games is in the sensation of fear and new stimulation.
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But, injury could await those that do not make their needs perfectly clear, or
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are sure of the one holding the whip.
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Remember, even a Submissive is responsible for how far the game goes, and
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the only object is to have a good fantasy and a very good, enjoyable time for
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all.
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