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Subject: ALT.PAGAN Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
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Archive-name: paganism-faq
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Last-modified: 1993/01/25
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Version: 1.0
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Posting-frequency: every six weeks or after each revision
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Keywords: paganism Wicca Witchcraft
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The files are available via anonymous Internet FTP to the host
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ftp.cc.utexas.edu (128.83.186.13), in the directory /pub/amadeus.
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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS FOR ALT.PAGAN
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Authors:
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Susan Harwood Kaczmarczik; Br'an Arthur Davis-Howe;
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T. O. Radzykewycz; Ailsa N.T. Murphy
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Throughout this FAQ you will find the words "usually," often," and
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other disclaimers; this is because Paganism is not a rigid, structured
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belief system. We have tried to present as many faces of the neopagan
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sub-culture as possible in the FAQ, but realize we can't possibly
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cover it all.
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Many people, no doubt, will object to every part of this FAQ, but
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we stand by it as our best attempt.
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*First version completed 25 January 1993*
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Questions:
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1) What is this group for?
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2) What is paganism/a pagan?
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2b) What is Paganism? How is it different from paganism?
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3) What are different types of paganism?
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4) What is Witchcraft/Wicca?
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4b) Why do some of you use the word Witch? Wiccan?
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5) What are some different traditions in the Craft?
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6) Are pagans Witches?
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7) Are you Satanists?
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8) What kinds of people are pagans?
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9) What holidays do you celebrate?
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10) What god(s) do you believe in?
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11) Can one be both Christian and pagan?
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12) What were the Burning Times?
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13) How many pagans/Witches are there today?
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14) Why isn't it soc.religion.paganism instead of alt.pagan?
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15) Is brutal honesty or polite conversation the preferred tone of
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conversation around here?
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16) What are the related newsgroups?
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17) Are there any electronic mailing lists on this subject?
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18) I'm not a pagan; should I post here?
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19) How does one/do I become a pagan?
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20) What books/magazines should I read?
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21) How do I find pagans/Witches/covens/teachers in my area?
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22) What's a coven really like?
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23) How do I form a coven?
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24) What does Dianic mean?
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25) Aren't women-only circles discriminatory?
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26) Can/will you cast me a love spell/curse my enemies?
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1) What is this group for?
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This newsgroup is for the discussion of paganism and Witchcraft in
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their various forms and traditions; for sharing ideas for ritual and
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completed liturgy; for networking with others of a like mind and those
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who are not; for answering questions and disseminating information
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about paganism and Witchcraft (and, occasionally, for dispelling the
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misconceptions about same). It's also for sharing within a larger
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community than one might find at home. While we are interested in
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traditional pagan practices, the alt.pagan community is fundamentally
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neopagan -- our practices are modern, though they are based on ancient
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ideas or images.
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2) What is paganism/a pagan?
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The words paganism and pagan come from the Latin "paganus,"
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meaning "country dweller." Neopagans hold a reverence for the Earth
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and all its creatures, generally see all life as interconnected, and
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tend to strive to attune one's self to the manifestation of this
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belief as seen in the cycles of nature. Pagans are usually
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polytheistic (believing in more than one god), and they usually
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believe in immanance, or the concept of divinity residing in all
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things. Many pagans, though polytheistic, see all things as being
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part of one Great Mystery. The apparent contradiction of being both
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polytheistic and monotheistic can be resolved by seeing the God/desses
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as masks worn by the Great Mystery. Other pagans are simply
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monotheistic or polytheistic, and still others are atheistic.
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Some people believe paganism to be a religion within itself;
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others see it as a belief system (such as monotheism) that can be
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incorporated into religions like Wicca or Druidism; others see it as a
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broad category including many religions. The fact that we are
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re-creating religion for ourselves after centuries of suppression
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makes us very eclectic and very concerned with the "rightness" of a
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particular thing for the individual. So when you see some people
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calling it a religion and others not, when you see it capitalized in
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some instances and not in others, don't be confused -- we're all still
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basically talking about the same thing.
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2b) What is Paganism? How is it different from paganism?
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Paganism (with a capital "P") is one strand of neopaganism which
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strives to allow each person to draw from whatever religious and
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cultural traditions are meaningful for the individual. The practices
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of Paganism derive from those of Wicca, but are not identical with
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those of Wicca. Some people view Paganism as a non-initiatory form of
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Wicca, or Wicca as an initiatory form of Paganism. Some say that
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Witches are the clergy of Paganism. (On the other hand, some Witches
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violently disagree with that viewpoint. As with most things in this
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FAQ, there is no answer with which everyone can completely agree.)
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3) What are different types of paganism?
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Paleo-paganism: the standard of paganism, a pagan culture which
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has not been disrupted by "civilization" by another culture --
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Australian Bushmen modern (who are probably becoming meso-pagans),
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ancient Celtic religion (Druidism), the religions of the
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pre-patriarchal cultures of Old Europe, Norse religion, pre-Columbian
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Native American religions, etc.
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Civilo-paganism: the religions of "civilized" communities which
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evolved in paleo-pagan cultures -- Classical Greco-Roman religion,
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Egyptian religion, Middle-Eastern paganism, Aztec religion, etc.
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Meso-paganism: a group, which may or may not still constitute a
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separate culture, which has been influenced by a conquering culture,
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but has been able to maintain an independence of religious practice --
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many Native American nations, etc.
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Syncreto-paganism: similar to meso-pagan, but having had to
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submerge itself into the dominant culture, and adopt the external
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practices and symbols of the other religion -- the various
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Afro-diasporic traditions (Voudoun, Santeria, etc.), Culdee
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Christianity, etc.
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Neopaganism: attempts of modern people to reconnect with nature,
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using imagery and forms from other types of pagans, but adjusting them
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to the needs of modern people. Since this category is the focus of
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alt.pagan, the listing here is more comprehensive (though no listing
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could be completely comprehensive):
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Wicca -- in all its many forms
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neo-Shamanism
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neo-Druidism
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Asatru and other forms of Norse neopaganism
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neo-Native American practices
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the range of things labeled "Women's Spirituality"
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the Sabaean Religious Order
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Church of All Worlds
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Discordianism
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Radical Faeries and other "Men's Spirituality" movements
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certain people within Thelema and hedonistic Satanism
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some of eco-feminism
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and last, but not least, Paganism
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4) What is Witchcraft/Wicca?
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Wicca was the first (or at least one of the first) of the neopagan
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religions. As a result, it is the best known, and tends to overshadow
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its younger, smaller siblings. This bias appears in the postings in
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alt.pagan and in this FAQ. This does not mean that Wicca is more
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valid than other neopagan religions -- just larger and louder.
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Wicca, however, is only one of the things called W/witchcraft (or
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sometimes, the Craft, a term also applied to Masonry). There are a
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whole range of styles of folk-magic around the world which are called
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witchcraft in English. If the word Witch is capitalized, it indicates
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that it is being used to refer to a member of a pagan religion, not
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just to a practitioner of folk-magic. There are also Witches who
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practice religions called Witchcraft which are not Wicca. These
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religions tend to be more folk-pagan than Wicca, drawing on the
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heritage of a specific culture or region.
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Wicca itself is a new religion, drawing strongly on the practices
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of Ceremonial Magic. While there are claims that Wicca goes back into
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the mists of pre-history, honest examination of the practices and
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history of the Wicca will make it clear that Wicca is new. (Actually,
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the word "Wicca" itself is recently coined, at least in its present
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usage. The OE "wicca" was pronounced "witch-ah" and meant male
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magician. The new word "Wicca" is pronounced "wick-uh", capitalized
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as a religion, and means a religion, not a person.) However, Wicca
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has developed in many directions and should not be seen as a unified
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whole, even though it is fairly new. Rituals and beliefs vary widely
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among Witches.
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Unlike most of the neopagan religions, Wicca is an initiatory
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religion, that is, people who choose to practice Wicca believe that
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the commitment to this path set changes in motion in their lives.
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Many Traditions (sects) of Wicca formalize this with a ritual (or
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series of rituals) of initiation. Others, especially Solitary
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Witches, trust that the Gods will do the initiating of the Witch.
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4b) Why do some of you use the word Witch? Wiccan?
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First, not everyone in alt.pagan is Wiccan/Witchy, so this
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question only applies to some of the people.
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Witch is a very old word meaning "magic-maker", from a root which
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meant "bending" and "shaping". For many of us, the word Witch is a
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powerful reclaiming of that inherent human power to make changes
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around us. For others, including some of the people within Wicca,
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that word is not their word. Some people within Wicca take the
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adjective "Wiccan" and use it as a noun.
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(Some people question the authenticity of the etymology that says
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"witch" means "to bend or shape." They believe that the word is
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simply from the Old English for "wise one" and has no relation to the
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root mentioned above -- which gives us the modern word "wicker," for
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instance. However, this definition is a good way to think of how a
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modern Witch might see him/herself.)
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5) What are some different traditions in the Craft?
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Different traditions in the Craft include Gardnerian Wicca,
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Alexandrian Wicca, Dianic Wicca, the Faery tradition, many branches of
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Celtic-based Wicca, and many other forms of Wicca often called
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eclectic, since they draw their practices and liturgy from many
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different sources. There is no way to include all traditions because
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new ones are being created every day by the practitioners themselves.
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6) Are pagans Witches?
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We've mentioned that even among pagans and Witches, there is
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dispute about just how specific these terms are. But the majority
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opinion seems to be that the question, "Are pagans Witches?" is about
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the same as the question, "Are Christians Catholics?" (or Methodists,
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Baptists or whatever). Most Witches are pagans, but not all pagans
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are Witches.
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7) Are you Satanists?
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No. Most pagans do not worship Satan or practice Satanic rites.
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Some pagans practice something called Satanism, but it is a far cry
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from the Hollywood image of Satanism. These people tend to value
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pleasure as a primary motivation, or to find meaning in images which
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the repressive Christian churches attacked. For some of these folk,
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reclaiming the word "Satanist" is an act of resistance against
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oppression. For more information on Satanism as a religion, please
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check out alt.satanism.
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8) What kinds of people are pagans?
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People from all walks of life are pagans -- computer programmers,
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artists, police officers, journalists, university professors -- the
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list is endless. Many people, no matter what their mundane
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occupation, find solace in the life-affirming aspects of paganism.
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9) What holidays do you celebrate?
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Because neopaganism follows so many traditions from many different
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parts of the world, there is no single set of holidays that all
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neopagans celebrate. Several calendars are available which list many
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different holidays, one or more for every day of the year (e.g. Wise
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Woman's Wheel of the Year calendar from SageWoman Magazine). Most of
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these holidays are either dedicated to particular deities (e.g.
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Brighid, Diana, Thor), or mark seasonal changes in the environment
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(e.g. the solstices and equinoxes). What specific holidays are
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celebrated is something decided within a certain tradition, or by the
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individual.
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10) What god(s) do you believe in?
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Neopagans believe in a great many goddesses and gods. However,
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not all neopagans believe in the same ones, or even in any at all.
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Many neopagans believe in a Goddess and a God that are manifest in all
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things. Some follow particular pantheons (e.g. Greek, Irish, Norse,
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Yoruban, Welsh), others don't stick to any one culture, and still
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others see the Divine in more symbolic terms. Many ascribe certain
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qualities to different goddesses, such as Athena as the goddess of
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wisdom; Aphrodite as the goddess of love; Artemis as the goddess of
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the hunt, and so on. Many pagans and Witches see the Goddess in three
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aspects, those of Maiden, Mother and Crone; and the God in two, the
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Young God and the Old God. Other pagans do not believe in any gods at
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all, but instead honor spirits and/or totems in various forms such as
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animals or trees, as in many of the native American religions. As is
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usually the case, defining "God" is a very slippery idea. But these
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are some of the more common among modern pagans.
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11) Can one be both Christian and pagan?
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Depends on who you ask. :)
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There is much dissention on this particular topic, with both
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pagans and Christians taking both stances. There are many brands of
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Christian mysticism, some more similar to the aspects of paganism than
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others. But some pagans who dance outside to the light of the moon
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and praise the Goddess in Her aspect of Diana see and feel no
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contradiction to going inside and lighting candles to Mary, the Queen
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of Heaven and the Mother of God, the next day. And those same pagans
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see the same sacrificial king motif in Jesus as they do in Osiris.
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Many people might find it difficult to reconcile the two paths;
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others see a successful integration possible. It depends on what is
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right for the individual.
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12) What were the Burning Times?
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The Burning Times is the name used by many modern Witches and
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pagans for the era of the Inquisition, and of the other witch hunts
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(including Salem) which sprang from it. During that time, many
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women and some men were persecuted for practices objectionable to the
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Church, especially witchcraft. The _Malleus Maleficarum_ was a guide
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on how to torture accused witches into confessing to whatever they
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were accused of. At the height of the persecutions, entire towns were
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left with only one or two women in them, and to this day no one knows
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for sure how many people were brutally murdered during this craze.
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As is often the case, this horror sprang from fear and
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misinformation -- most of the people who were arrested, tortured and
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killed were not Witches (or witches) of any sort, but simply people
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who had gotten on the wrong side of someone who had the local
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magistrate's ear, or who somehow didn't fit in (particularly beautiful
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or ugly women, widows who had wealth or owned land, the handicapped
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and retarded, and even overly intelligent people are all examples of
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those who became primary targets of this persecution).
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Although discrimination still exists against Witches and pagans,
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we now enjoy comparative freedom of religious practice after those
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dark times. But this time is considered a very important event by
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most Witches and pagans (comparable to the atrocities and devastation
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perpetrated during the Holocaust ), one that should never be
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forgotten, and many do active public education work to assure as best
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they can that it will never happen again.
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13) How many pagans/Witches are there today?
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Although many people have given estimates, it's impossible to know
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this due to the number of people "in the broom closet." However, all
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branches of the neopagan movement are steadily growing.
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14) Why isn't it soc.religion.paganism instead of alt.pagan?
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Because we had a vote to create a soc.religion.paganism newsgroup
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back in January 1990 and it was voted down, largely because the
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proposed group was to be moderated and people didn't like that idea.
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So, when that failed, some enterprising soul took it upon himself to
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create alt.pagan, because you don't need approval to do that.
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Since then, we have discussed changing newsgroup hierarchies, but
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the consensus at present seems to be to keep the format we have.
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Being typical pagans, we like as little structure as possible.
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15) Is brutal honesty or polite conversation the preferred mode
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of conversation around here?
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People tend to get a little rowdy around here sometimes, so don't
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let it get to you. One of the disadvantages to this type of
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communication is the increased possibility of misunderstanding due to
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the inability to see the person and hear his or her vocal inflections,
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see their facial expressions, et cetera. It's generally frowned upon
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to attack someone baselessly, but there is no problem with disagreeing
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with someone vigorously -- vociferously, even. Try being
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constructive.
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16) What are the related newsgroups?
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alt.mythology
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alt.satanism
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alt.magick
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alt.astrology
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alt.divination
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17) Are there any electronic mailing lists on this subject?
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Many -- we will include some in our alt.pagan resources list.
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18) I'm not a pagan; should I post here?
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Yes, definitely -- with a couple of caveats:
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a) Don't come on to witness to us. We're really not interested in
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being converted (or worse, saved). It's not a tenet of our path to
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convert, and so we are particularly unhappy with the idea. Plus
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which, you will add unnecessarily to the noise level in this
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newsgroup, since most readers will feel compelled to flame you to the
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farthest reaches of Hell.
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(This doesn't mean we don't want to discuss aspects of other
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religions as they relate to paganism, however. Discussion we like.
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Argument, even. But *not* witness attempts.)
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b) If you're new to News, then you might want to check out
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news.announce.newusers for the posting protocol. And you might want
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to read some articles for a while -- get the feel of things -- before
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you post.
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19) How does one/do I become a pagan?
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Most followers of pagan beliefs feel that, if someone is meant to
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find the pagan path, s/he will eventually. Usually, it is not a case
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so much of "becoming" a pagan as it is of finding a vocabulary for
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ideas and beliefs that you have always held. Good ways of
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investigating if this path is for you is to frequent pagan or new age
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bookstores, attend open pagan gatherings when the opportunity arises,
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and look for contacts. Most importantly, read read read! There are
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plenty of good books out there, as well as periodicals. The latter
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especially might be useful in the way of making contacts in your area.
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20) What books/magazines should I read?
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There are many, many good books on this subject (and quite a few
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bad ones), and we have many of them in our alt.pagan resources list.
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But the best book to read is _Drawing Down the Moon_ by Margot Adler.
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This is not a how-to book; it's a comprehensive study of the neopagan
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movement in America, and the author is a journalist, a reporter for
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National Public Radio, and a pagan.
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21) How do I find pagans/Witches/covens/teachers in my area? How do I
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evaluate them?
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Some of your best contacts may come from your local new age, pagan
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or occult bookstores. Check their bulletin boards for notices, or ask
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the staff. Also, the periodicals we mentioned frequently allow people
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to advertise for contacts in their particular area. Circle Network,
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based in Wisconsin, has recently come out with an updated guide to
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pagan groups; it is available by mail-order or through certain new age
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bookstores.
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Don't be in a hurry to find a teacher. "When the student is
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ready, the teacher will appear" is a popular saying in most pagan and
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Craft communities. Frustrating as that may sound, it's really a
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sensible way to think. Neopaganism, like any esoteric movement,
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attracts its share of unsavory characters. When you do meet people,
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use your intuition. If they seem somehow "off" to you, then they're
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probably not for you. If no one seems like someone you think you'd
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like to be with, then you're probably better off working solitary, at
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least for such time as you find no compatible people.
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And by no means should you infer from this that all solitaries are
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"pagans-in-waiting". Many people are quite happy to work alone, and
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in fact prefer it. There is nothing wrong with working on your own as
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long as you like -- even if that turns out to be a lifetime.
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In fact, there are several people who highly recommend that you
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study on your own for a while before looking for others to work with.
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This gives you the chance to get started figuring out what feels right
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for you without having pressure from others to conform to their
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beliefs and dogmas.
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22) What's a coven really like?
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Well, if you're expecting to hear about sex and blood magic,
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animal sacrifice, and ritual cruelty, then you'll be disappointed.
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Forming or joining a coven, is a spiritual commitment (the words coven
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and covenant are related) that is entered into advisedly. Once that
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bond is made, though, you find yourself in a spiritual community of
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people who have roughly the same theology, getting together to
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celebrate the passing of the seasons and the cycles of the moon,
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providing support and comfort to its members -- a lot like a small
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spiritual community of any faith. Another common saying in the Craft
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is "In perfect love and perfect trust," and that sums up the
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relationship among coveners pretty well.
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Another kind of group for like-minded pagans to gather in is
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called a circle. The ties between coven members are as close as those
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between members of a family, and in some cases, closer. A circle is
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similar to a group of friends -- you like to do things together, but
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the bonds between members are not as serious as between coven-members.
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23) How do I form a coven?
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Just as you shouldn't be in a big rush to find a teacher, you
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probably shouldn't set right out to form a coven. Most Witches
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believe the coven bond to be a very intense and serious one, one that
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applies on the Karmic as well as mundane levels. Think of it as
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getting married -- you wouldn't marry the first people you met who are
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interested in getting married too, would you?
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Forming a circle, or a magical study group, is perhaps a better
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first step. It can be on a relatively informal basis, and you and the
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other participants can get to know each other while learning about the
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Craft together (as a matter of fact, many covens are formed from study
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groups). The fun of this is that you can meet more people who are
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interested in what you're interested in, and you can all learn
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together, and maybe even develop a tradition from the results of your
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studies. (You can do this as a solitary, of course, but some people
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do take more enjoyment in working with others. Once again, do what's
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right for you.)
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The steps for contacting people to form a coven are much the same
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as finding other pagans and Witches in your area. A word of advice,
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though: You may want to leave your last name off, or get a P.O. box.
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Don't give out your number (unless you have an answering machine).
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Advertising yourself as being interested in this sort of thing might
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attract, shall we say, undesirables. Try writing such a notice so
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that those who are probably interested in similar ideals will know
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what you're talking about without attracting the attention of people
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who aren't. Even though *we* know that we're perfectly ethical and
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legitimate, not everyone else does.
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24) What does Dianic mean?
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Like everything else in neopaganism and the Craft, the term Dianic
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is one that has several meanings. A majority of those who call
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themselves Dianic don't recognize male energy in their ritual, magic,
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or universe. They feel that they need spiritual and psychic space
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filled with only women's energy.
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Some Dianics are feminist Witches, both lesbian and heterosexual,
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who often come to the Craft through feminism. Although these women
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may be involved with men in one way or another, they agree that
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religion has over-emphasized the male for the last several thousand
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years, and therefore want to share their women's energy in women's
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circles. They may or may not also be involved with the mainstream
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pagan community, and they may or may not participate in magic and
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ritual with men.
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The most visible groups of Dianics are those who are lesbian
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Dianics. They are generally not interested in revering any sort of
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male deity or in working with men in circle. They choose to limit
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their interactions with men and the male world as much as possible,
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and they do so not to exclude men but rather to celebrate women and
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the feminine. For that reason many of them do not interact much with
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the "mainstream" pagan community.
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(There are also those who call themselves Dianic and who are not
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lesbian or separatist, but who practice Witchcraft based on the
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traditions found books like those of anthropologist Margaret Murray.
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However, the term is more often meant to designate those practitioners
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described in the first two paragraphs.)
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25) Aren't women-only circles discriminatory?
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Yes, women-only circles are discriminatory. So what? *ALL*
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circles are somewhat discriminatory, even if the only discrimination
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is that they'll evict preachers who disrupt the proceedings of the
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circle.
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If you're worried about being discriminatory in your own circle,
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simply look at the circle as a group of friends. Then, the
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discrimination is simply a limit on who you'll have as your friends,
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which is undeniably a good thing.
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If you're worried about being discriminated against, then you can
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form your own circle, and you have the option to make it a men-only
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circle. Why do you want to intrude into a social space where you're
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not wanted?
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If the participants are discussing business-related things
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affecting you during their circle, then you have legal rights to be
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allowed to participate, regardless of whether the discrimination is
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gender-related or not. It would be good advice to avoid such topics
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during circle. If you're worried that a circle from which you're
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excluded is doing so, you can talk to a lawyer to find out what those
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rights are and whether it will be wise and useful to pursue them.
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26) Can/will you cast me a love spell/curse my enemies?
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Can we? Probably. (Whether it might yield the desired result is
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something else.) Will we? Not on your life, bucko.
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Pagans and Witches usually believe in some form of what's called
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the Witches' Rede: "As long as you harm no one, do what you will."
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That isn't nearly as easy as it might sound. That means whatever
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action you undertake, it can't harm anyone, including yourself.
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Witches and pagans also believe in some form of the Law of Return:
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say three times, some nine, some just say it will come back to you.
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And it does. As Ursula K. LeGuin said, "You can't light a candle
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without somewhere casting a shadow."
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Most of us believe that it is wrong to use magical power to coerce
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someone into doing something against his or her free will. Curses and
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love spells are the most prevalent examples of manipulative magic.
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Some Witches and pagans do believe that using one's powers in defense
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(say, to assure a rapist's getting caught) is all right; others do
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not. Those who do choose to work that kind of magic do so knowing
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that it will come back to them, and are making an informed choice when
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they decide to do so.
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This makes it sound as if we spend our lives deciding whether to
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curse or hex someone, when that's not true. Most of the time, our
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spells and magical workings are for such things as healing the planet,
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getting a job (or otherwise bringing prosperity into our lives),
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healing (both ourselves and others), and spiritual empowerment.
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Spells are really quite similar to prayer -- they just have more
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Hollywood hoopla attached to them.
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Besides, anything you do for yourself will work much better than a
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spell or working done by someone else.
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AFTERWORD
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The creators of this FAQ want to thank the readers of alt.pagan for
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their input in compiling the questions. We will be more than happy to
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revise it to include the points of view from other readers. If you
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would like to add information to this FAQ, please send email to
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amadeus@ccwf.cc.utexas.edu with your proposed addition.
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Thank you and Blessed Be!
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**References**
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_Drawing Down the Moon_, Margot Adler, Beacon Press.
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_To Know_, Jade, Delphi Press.
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--
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-----Susan Harwood Kaczmarczik-------------------------------*<:-)-------------
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"Queens never make bargains." -- The Red Queen, _Through the Looking Glass_
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@DATAPHONE@-----amadeus@ccwf.cc.utexas.edu--------------The University of Texas
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