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How Good Is Group SEX?
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I've long been fascinated by the idea of group sex. I've never tried
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it, but it's part of my fantasies.
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I asked a friend who has participated in a number of these scenes and
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he said "It's a bit disappointing. People usually just pair off and
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have sex in couples as if they were alone".
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Does group sex ever turn out to involve a lot of people simultaneously
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involved with each other? What is the ideal setting for group sex? How
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many participants are the ideal number?
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Peter
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Peter
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I'd say not more than 3 or 4.. depending on what you have in mind.
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Anymore than that, and things just become too distracting!
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Terry
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20-May-86 10:32:46
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Dear Terry:
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3 or 4 ... do you think the best would be two males and two females, or
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some other configuration? And if 3, should they be two girls and a man
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or two men and a girl?
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Peter
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Peter,
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To each his or her own as it were, but 2 couples, 2 male and 2 female
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seemed best to me. I also have heard of problems with 3's, but I think
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the ultimate solution is just to have compatible people to begin with.
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I've had wonderful times with 2 men and a woman, and know of a case
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where just the reverse was true.
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Terry
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: * Peter *
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Well ... my own experience in a couple of such group occasions has been
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that the participants didn't separate off into couples, but pretty much
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kept things going on a group level, i.e., everybody was both giving and
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receiving mucho stimulation from everyone else. An important
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consideration at these times was that the people involved (two men and
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two women, plus yours truly) were on the bisexual end of
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heterosexuality, so that when us lasses got all sort of wrapped up in
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each other, the men participating felt comfortable with giving each
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other a hand (so to speak), instead of just keeping their distance from
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each other. On the whole, the experience was wonderful, and, I'd
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recommend it for folks who want to have some extra-special fun with
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close friends.
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B.
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23-May-86 09:00:07
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Dear Brenda:
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I'm delighted to learn that it can be as much fun as I imagine it to
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be. I suppose that there has to be at least some element of bisexuality
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for it to get much beyond the pairing-off into couples stage, and that
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you would have to choose the participants with this in mind.
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How did you get the whole thing started? Did it just sort of happen, or
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did you plan it in advance?
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Huggs ... Peter
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23-May-86 18:04:31
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Peter
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Well, these cheery events happened at a couple of conventions. There
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wasn't really planning as such. We *had* planned to meet with each
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other at some point during the con, and it all started out as just some
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people sitting around digesting a wonderful dinner. Then, with everyone
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sprawled out on the bed, limbs entangled and some pleasant
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conversation, we all just sort of gradually starting fiddling with each
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other's hair, and tickling necks, and dropping quick sweet pecks on
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shoulders and such, and then someone took someone else's shirt off, and
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it sort of got all mushy and sexy from there.
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I haven't been involved in group sex for a little while now, a couple
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of years, but even if the opportunity never pops up again (heaven
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forfend!) I treasure those hours greatly.
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B.
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23-May-86 19:07:45
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Brenda
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Sounds like I should go to more conventions! I bet it wasn't a computer
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business convention!
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Huggs ... Peter
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25-May-86 09:14:40
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Peter
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You're right about that. It was a science-fiction con, actually. Those
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folks can get a mite wild given the least excuse. I think it's a
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reflection of the interest itself, people have to be quite open-minded
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to accept, for a while, the possibile reality of whatever future, past,
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or alternate world that is being written about. And I think this
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willingness to open one's self up to ideas other than those one might
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have been taught or pressured into believing, spills over into a lot of
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other areas of an sf fan's life. For what it's worth (whoops, I meant,
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``For what it's worth,'') I know that there are particular hotbeds of
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sf fans who first were exposed to, and became comfortable with, the
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idea of group sex through the Robert Heinlein book, STRANGER IN A
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STRANGE LAND.
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B.
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25-May-86 14:04:59
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Brenda
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So science fiction is where you can make your fantasies come true!
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Thanks for the reference to the book - I'll definitely look it up. I
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have recently been told about John Norman's series of books about GOR,
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which also combine science fiction with eroticism. I am looking forward
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to reading some of those.
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Best wishes ... * Peter *
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25-May-86 20:53:22
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as in many areas, three is the magic number.
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25-May-86 22:39:1
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Dear Harley,
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I thought *seven* was the magic number. Three? Listen, m'love...
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when a man says *three*, what he means is: two women and one man! I
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think that's a bit selfish and I'm sure you'll agree! <smile>
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Now if we could change the makeup of that threesome.....hmmmm.
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Hugggs,
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Eleanor
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25-May-86 23:09:16
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So how would you construct a sevensome, (septet?), Eleanor?
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By the way, are you aware of the implications of writing Hmmmmmm on
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this board?
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Higgs .... Peter
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26-May-86 19:08:26
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Dear Smug Elly-
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Actually, I WAS thinking of two men and one women.
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It takes 2 men to cope with a woman, you see. they can lend each
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other the emotional support that is needed so much when dealing with
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you female types.
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Peanut Butter huggs
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Harley
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26-May-86 21:52:29
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<fluffing naturally curly blonde hair....fluttering eyelashes that
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shade baby blue eyes>
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Oh! <blush>
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Just *emotional* support? <giggle>
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Oreo Hugggs,
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Eleanor
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Dear Peter,
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I'm pretty much unaware of the implications of everything. <grin>
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A septet? Depends on who wants the septet, I think. If *I* were going
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to have a septet, it would have to be six men and me. Does that sound
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a bit greedy? Anyway, they would be my age or older (40+) and they
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would all madly adore me. And then.....and then.....<blush>
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Hey Peter. In Tibet they have polyandry! A woman often marries all of
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the brothers in a family. Sound great to me. One to earn a good
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living; one to do the yard work; one to keep house; one to take care of
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the kids; one to run errands; and one to do the bookwork. Wow! *I*
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would have to spend those days reading or strolling in the well-kept
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garden. <sigh>
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You may not hear from me for a while. I'm checking OAG for flights to
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Lhasa!
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Huggggs,
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Eleanor
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Oh Don't go, Eleanor! If you leave us all seven of us will miss you
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terribly!
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Huggs..Peter
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Gosh Peter!!!!!
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You left out one tiny detail ---------------------------->
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DETAIL--------> WHICH SEVEN ???????
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Hug, hug, hug, hug, hug, hug, hug!
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Eleanor
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28-May-86 00:16:59
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Me, Me, Me, Me, Me, Me and Me
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Higgs from all of us .... Peter
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28-May-86 15:47:14
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Actually, Elly dear, two men are needed so that one can hold the
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member of the gentle gender down so the other can do something other
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than screw for abit.
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with milk, (chocolate, of course)
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Harley t/
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My experience with 'groups' was always with small ones; two girls and
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me, or two girls and two guys. Generally sex occurred in pairs with an
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occasional real threesome. It would seem to me that for larger real
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GROUP sex in every sense of the term, some tendency towards bisexuality
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becomes a prerequisite. I guess I haven't got those tendencies. For me
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to have sex with another male even in the room, I have to know him
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pretty well!
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w.w.
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Dear William
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I agree. I'd have a problem in having to deal with other males in a
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group sex situation. Perhaps my group sex fantasies are really harem
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fantasies - other men just don't come into them!
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Peter
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oooh! oooh! oooh! oooh! oooh! oooh! oooh!
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Gosh, Peter. I didn't know you did windows, too!
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Hugggs X 7 !
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Eleanor
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< b l u s h >
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Hugggs, <sticky peanut butter ones>
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Eleanor
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ROGER
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CONTACT WITH THE OTHER MEN WAS LIMITED IN MOST INSTANCES TO NON-SEXUAL
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MASSAGE THE FEMALES INVOLVED WERE ADEQUATE TO DEAL WITH THE SEXUAL ASPECTS
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