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"Be what you are. This is the first step toward becoming
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better than you are."
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--Julius Charles Hare
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"You are all you will ever have for certain."
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--June Havoc
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"Don't take anyone else's definition of success as your own.
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(This is easier said than done.)"
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--Jacqueline Briskin
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Don't let your hopes run wild:
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"He that lives upon hope will die fasting."
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--Benjamin Franklin
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"Hope is a good breakfast, but it is a bad supper."
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--Francis Bacon
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"The ability to accept responsibility s the measure of the
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man."
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--Roy L. Smith
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"It's like magic. When you live by yourself, all your
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annoying habits are gone!"
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--Merrill Markoe
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Don't hesitate:
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"Procrastination is opportunity's assassin."
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--Victor Kiam
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"Why always, 'not yet?' Do flowers in spring say, 'not
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yet?'"
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--Norman Douglas
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"People are like stained glass windows;they sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light within."
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"The follies a man regrets most in his life are those which
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he didn't commit when he had the opportunity."
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--Helen Rowland
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"Too many of us are hung up on what we don't have, can't
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have, or won't ever have. We spend too much energy being
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down, when we could use that same energy – if not less of it
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– doing, or at least trying to do, some of the things we
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really want to do."
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--Terry McMillan
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Never assume that you "know" human nature:
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"Man is always worse than most people suspect, but also
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generally better than most people dream."
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--Reinhold Niebuhr
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"A man is more complex, infinitely more so, than his
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thoughts."
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--Paul Valery
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"The door of opportunity won't open unless you do some
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pushing."
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--Anon.
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"True affluence is not needing anything."
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--Gary Snyder
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Always make sure that what you think you see is not just what
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you want to see
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"Beware that you do not lose the substance by grasping at the
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shadow" --Aesop
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"God help those who do not help themselves."
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--Wilson Mizener
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"Follow your bliss. Find where it is and don't be afraid to
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follow it."
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--Joseph Campbell
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"Those see nothing but faults that seek for nothing else."
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--Thomas Fuller
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If you would love and be loved, be ready to give your all:
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"Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get --
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only with what you are expecting to give -- which is
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everything."
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--Katharine Hepburn
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"If you give your life as a wholehearted response to love,
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then love will wholeheartedly respond to you."
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--Marianne Williamson
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"I have accepted fear as part of life – specifically the fear
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of change . . . . I have gone ahead despite the pounding in
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the heart that says: turn back . . . ."
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--Erica Jong
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"A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds."
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--Francis Bacon
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Don't confuse wealth and success with happiness:
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"It is neither wealth nor splendor, but tranquility and
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occupation, which give happiness."
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--Thomas Jefferson
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"Success can also cause misery. The trick is not to be
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surprised when you discover it doesn't bring you all the
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happiness and answers you thought it would."
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--the artist formerly known as Prince
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"It's pretty hard to tell what does bring happiness; poverty
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and wealth have both failed."
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--Kin Hubbard
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"Life's under no obligation to give us what we expect."
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--Margaret Mitchell
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"There are two things to aim at in life: first, to get what
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you want; and after that, to enjoy it. Only the wisest of
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mankind achieve the second"
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--Logan Pearsall Smith
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"Faith is the only known cure for fear."
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--Lena K. Sadler
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"Do not do onto others as you would they should do onto you.
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Their tastes may not be the same."
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--George Bernard Shaw
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"If a man will begin with certainties, he shall end in doubts;
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but if he will be content to begin with doubts, he shall end
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in certainties."
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--Francis Bacon
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"Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing
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can be done without hope and confidence."
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--Helen Keller
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"Think positively and masterfully, with confidence and faith,
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and life becomes more secure, more fraught with action,
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richer in achievement and experience."
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--Eddie Rickenbacker
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"Other people's interruptions of your work are relatively
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insignificant compared with the countless times you interrupt
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yourself."
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--Brendan Francis
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"Each day, and the living of it, has to be a conscious
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creation in which discipline and order are relieved with some
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play and pure foolishness."
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--May Sarton
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"What is now proved was once imagined."
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--William Blake
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"No matter how big or soft or warm your bed is, you still
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have to get out of it."
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--Grace Slick
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"Use what talents you have; the woods would have little music
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if no birds sang their song except those who sang best."
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--Reverend Oliver G. Wilson
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"One of the sources of pride in being a human being is the
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ability to bear present frustrations in the interests of
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longer purposes."
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--Helen Merrell Lynd
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"The first step to knowledge is to know that we are
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ignorant."
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--Lord David Cecil
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If you would keep your friends, hold your tongue:
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"It is important to our friends that we are unreservedly
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frank with them, and important to our friendship that we are
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not."
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--Mignon McLaughlin
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"Don't tell friends their social faults; they will cure the
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fault and never forgive you."
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--Logan Pearsall Smith
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"If we all told what we know of one another, there would not
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be four friends in the world."
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--Blaise Pascal
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"That is what learning is. You suddenly understand something
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you've understood all your life, but in a new way."
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--Doris Lessing
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"Courage is the power to let go of the familiar."
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--Raymond Linquist
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"To change and to improve are two different things."
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--German proverb
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"Expect trouble as an inevitable part of life and repeat to
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yourself the most comforting words of all: This, too, shall
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pass."
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--Ann Landers
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"Happy the man who has broken the chains which hurt the mind,
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and has given up worrying, once and for all."
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--Ovid
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"What worries you, masters you."
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--Haddon W. Robinson
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"Don't hurry, don't worry. You're only here for a short
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visit. So be sure and stop to smell the flowers."
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--Walter Hagen
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"Nothing can be done except little by little."
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--Charles Baudelaire
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"I recommend that you take care of the minutes, for the hours
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will take care of themselves."
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--Lord Chesterfield
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"Life is a great bundle of little things."
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--Oliver Wendell Holmes
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"Life is what happens to us while we are making other plans."
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--Thomas La Mance
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"Life is like a blanket too short. You pull it up and your
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toes rebel, you yank it down and shivers meander about your
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shoulder; but cheerful folks manage to draw their knees up
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and pass a very comfortable night."
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--Marion Howard
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"Happiness is a Swedish sunset; it is there for all, but most
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of us look the other way and lose it."
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--Mark Twain
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"You have no idea how big the other fellow's troubles are."
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--B. C. Forbes
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"Immense power is acquired by assuring yourself in your
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secret reveries that you were born to control affairs."
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--Andrew Carnegie
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"Hope is a risk that must be run."
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--Georges Bernanos
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"When thinking won't cure fear, action will."
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--W. Clement Stone
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Don't be afraid to make a mistake -- go ahead and goof:
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"Truth will sooner come out of error than from confusion."
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--Francis Bacon
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"If I had my life to live over again, I'd dare to make more
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mistakes the next time."
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--Nadine Stair
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"If I had to live my life again, I'd make the same mistakes,
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only sooner."
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--Tallulah Bankhead
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"Life can be real rough . . . you can either learn from your
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problems, or keep repeating them over and over."
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--Marie Osmond
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"Creating success is tough. But keeping it is tougher. You
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have to keep producing, you can never stop."
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--Pete Rose
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"Losses are comparative, only imagination makes them of any
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moment."
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--Blaise Pascal
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"Making the simple complicated is commonplace; making the
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complicated simple, awesomely simple, that's creativity."
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--Charles Mingus
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All generalizations are false, including this one.
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If you fall from the tree leave the anger on the branches
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"I have lived my life according to this principle: If I'm
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afraid of it, then I must do it."
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--Erica Jong
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"The greatest wisdom often consists in ignorance."
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--Baltasar Gracian
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"I go at what I am about as if there was nothing else in the
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world for the time being."
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--Charles Lingsley
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Remember that wealth is relative:
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"He is poor who does not feel content."
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--Japanese proverb
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"If your desires be endless, your cares and fears will be so,
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too."
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--Thomas Fuller
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"I have the greatest of all riches: that of not desiring
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them."
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--Eleonora Duse
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"There's no labor a man can do that's undignified, if he does
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it right."
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--Bill Cosby
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"No matter how far you have gone on a wrong road, turn back."
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--Turkish proverb
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"Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much."
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--Oscar Wilde
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Learn from life:
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"[Experience is] how life catches up with us and teaches us
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to love and forgive each other."
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--Judy Collins
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"A proverb is a short sentence based on long experience."
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--Miguel de Cervantes
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"If we could sell our experiences for what they cost us, we
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would all be millionaires."
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--Abigail Van Buren
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"Unless I accept my faults, I will most certainly doubt my
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virtues."
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--Hugh Prather
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"If you can't write your idea on the back of my calling card,
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you don't have a clear idea."
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--David Belasco
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"I love the challenge of starting at zero every day and
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seeing how much I can accomplish."
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--Martha Stewart
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Don't confuse being alone with loneliness:
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"Solitude is the human condition in which I keep myself
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company. Loneliness comes about when I am alone without being
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able to split up into the two-in-one, without being able to
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keep myself company."
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--Hannah Arendt
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"I never found the companion that was so companionable as
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solitude."
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--Henry David Thoreau
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"This great misfortune -- to be incapable of solitude."
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--Jean De La Bruyere
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"Everything's in the mind. That's where it all starts.
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Knowing what you want is the first step toward getting it."
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--Mae West
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"Difficulties exist to be surmounted."
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--Ralph Waldo Emerson
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"Luck is largely a matter of paying attention."
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--Susan M. Dodd
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Cultivate your capacity to give:
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"To give and not to feel that one has given is the very best
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of all ways of giving."
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--Max Beerbohm
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"Give, if thou can, an alms; if not, a sweet and gentle
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word."
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--Robert Herrick
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"Real unselfishness consists in sharing the interests of
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others."
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--George Santayana
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"All problems become smaller if you don't dodge them, but
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confront them."
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--William F. Halsey
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"Pain is the root of knowledge."
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--Simone Weil
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"The ideal day never comes. Today is ideal for him who would make
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it so."
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--Horatio W. Dresser
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Encourage achievement by letting people know you think
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they're up to it:
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"Children are likely to live up to what you believe of them."
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--Lady Bird Johnson
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"A great manager has a knack for making ballplayers think
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they are better than they think they are. He forces you to
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have a good opinion of yourself. He lets you know he
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believes in you. He makes you get more out of yourself. And
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once you learn how good you really are, you never settle for
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playing anything less than your very best."
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--Reggie Jackson
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"However much we guard against it, we tend to shape ourselves
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in the image others have of us."
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--Eric Hoffer
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"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times,
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always with the same person."
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--Mignon McLaughlin
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"The human mind can bear plenty of reality, but not too much
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intermittent gloom."
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--Margaret Drabble
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"Speak when you're angry – and you'll make the best speech
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you'll ever regret."
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--Laurence Peter
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Never desert your own line of talent. Be what nature
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intended you for, and you will succeed."
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--Sydney Smith
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"The brighter you are, the more you have to learn."
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--Don Herold
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"There is no sadder sight than a young pessimist."
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--Mark Twain
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"If one truly has lost hope, one would not be around to say
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so."
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--Eric Bentley
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"Let me tell thee, time is a very precious gift of God; so
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precious that it is only given to us moment by moment."
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--Amelia Barr
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"Our very business in life is not to get ahead of others, but
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to get ahead of ourselves."
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--Thomas L. Monson
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"Consistency is contrary to nature, contrary to life. The
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only completely consistent people are the dead."
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--Aldous Huxley
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Happiness is a state of mind, so move to that state:
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"The greatest part of our happiness or misery depends on our
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dispositions, and not our circumstances."
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--Martha Washington
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"The most unhappy of all men is he who believes himself to be
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so."
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--David Hume
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"Happiness is not a matter of events, it depends upon the
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tides of the mind."
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--Alice Meynell
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"Walk away from it [your problems] until you get stronger.
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All your troubles will be there when you get back, but you'll
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be better able to cope."
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--Lady Bird Johnson
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"One thing at a time, all things in succession. That which
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grows slowly endures."
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--J. G. Hubbard
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"I long to accomplish a great and noble task, but it is my
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chief duty to accomplish small tasks as if they were great
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and noble."
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--Helen Keller
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"Worry is interest paid on trouble before it comes due."
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--William R. Inge
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Keep trying!:
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"The secret of success is constancy of purpose."
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--Benjamin Disraeli
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"With ordinary talent and extraordinary perseverance, all
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things are attainable."
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--Sir Thomas Foxwell Buxton
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"I realized early on that success was tied to not giving up.
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Most people in this business gave up and went on to other
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things. If you simply didn't give up, you would outlast the
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people who came in on the bus with you."
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--Harrison Ford
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"One must change one's tactics every ten years if one wishes
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to maintain one's superiority."
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--Napoleon Bonaparte
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"A great obstacle to happiness is to expect too much
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happiness."
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--Bernard de Fontenelle
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"Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be
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looking for it."
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--Henry David Thoreau
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"Laughter is a tranquilizer with no side effects."
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--Arnold Glasow
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"Laughter is by definition healthy."
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--Doris Lessing
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"If somebody makes me laugh, I'm his slave for life."
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--Bette Midler
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"For the happiest life, days should be rigorously planned,
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nights left open to chance."
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--Mignon McLaughlin
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"To behave with dignity is nothing less than to allow others
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freely to be themselves."
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--Sol Chaneles
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To be persuasive, keep it to a few well-chosen words:
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"To say the right thing at the right time, keep still most of
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the time."
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--John W. Roper
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"The prime purpose of eloquence is to keep other people from
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speaking."
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--Louis Vermeil
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"The older I grow, the more I listen to people who don't say
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much."
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--Germain G. Glidden
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"If you want a place in the sun, you have to put up with a
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few blisters."
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--Abigail Van Buren
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Take responsibility when you goof:
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"Mistakes fail in their mission of helping the person who
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blames them on the other fellow."
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--Henry S. Haskins
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"When you blame others you give up your power to change."
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--Anon.
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"Fair play with others is primarily not blaming them for
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anything that is wrong with us."
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--Eric Hoffer
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"The important thing is not that we can live on hope alone,
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but that life is not worth living without it."
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--Harvey Milk
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"Every man has his own destiny; the only imperative is to
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follow it, to accept it, no matter where it leads him."
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--Henry Miller
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"A danger foreseen is half avoided."
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--Thomas Fuller
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"The day you take complete responsibility for yourself, the
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day you stop making excuses, that's the day you start your
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move to the top."
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--O. J. Simpson
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"Write it on your heart that every day is the best day of the
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year."
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--Ralph Waldo Emerson
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"If you want to be listened to, you should put in time
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listening."
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--Marge Piercy
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Don't despair, the sun will come up:
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"The weariest night, the longest day, sooner or later must
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perforce come to an end."
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--Baroness Orczy
|
||
|
||
"Hold your head high, stick your chest out. You can make it.
|
||
It gets dark sometimes, but morning comes . . . ."
|
||
--Rev. Jesse Jackson
|
||
|
||
"The morning is wiser than the evening."
|
||
--Russian proverb
|
||
|
||
|
||
"Every moment that I am centered in the future, I suffer a
|
||
temporary loss of this life."
|
||
--Hugh Prather
|
||
|
||
Don't hold people to too high a standard:
|
||
|
||
"When nobody around you measures up, it's time to check your
|
||
yardstick."
|
||
--Bill Lemly
|
||
|
||
"Because you're not what I would have you be, I blind myself
|
||
to who, in truth, you are."
|
||
--Madeline L'Engle
|
||
|
||
"If you expect perfection from other people, your whole life
|
||
is a series of disappointments, grumbling and complaints.
|
||
If, on the contrary, you pitch your expectations low, taking
|
||
folks as the inefficient creatures which they are, you are
|
||
frequently surprised by having them perform better than you
|
||
had hoped."
|
||
--Bruce Barton
|
||
|
||
If taking vitamins doesn't keep you healthy enough, try more
|
||
laughter:
|
||
|
||
"The most wasted of all days is that on which one has not
|
||
laughed."
|
||
--Nicolas-Sebastien Chamfort
|
||
|
||
"Laughter is a tranquilizer with no side effects."
|
||
--Arnold Glasow
|
||
|
||
"We are all here for a spell, get all the good laughs you
|
||
can."
|
||
--Will Rogers
|
||
|
||
|
||
"The secret of a leader lies in the tests he has faced over
|
||
the whole course of his life and the habit of action he
|
||
develops in meeting those tests."
|
||
--Gail Sheehy
|
||
|
||
"The truth is more important than the facts."
|
||
--Frank Lloyd Wright
|
||
|
||
|
||
"The man who has no inner life is the slave of his
|
||
surroundings."
|
||
--Henri Frederic Amiel
|
||
|
||
"The wisdom of life consists in the elimination of
|
||
nonessentials."
|
||
--Lin Yutang
|
||
|
||
Marriage is a work in progress, so keep working at it:
|
||
|
||
"The more you invest in a marriage, the more valuable it
|
||
becomes."
|
||
--Amy Grant
|
||
|
||
"We all have a childhood dream that when there is love,
|
||
everything goes like silk, but the reality is that marriage
|
||
requires a lot of compromise."
|
||
--Raquel Welch
|
||
|
||
"A sound marriage is not based on complete frankness; it is
|
||
based on a sensible reticence."
|
||
--Morris L. Ernst
|
||
|
||
"Hope sees the invisible, feels the intangible and achieves
|
||
the impossible."
|
||
--Anon.
|
||
|
||
"We must use time as a tool, not as a crutch."
|
||
--John F. Kennedy
|
||
|
||
"He who begins many things finishes but a few."
|
||
--Italian proverb
|
||
|
||
Carve your own path through life:
|
||
|
||
"We only do well the things we like doing."
|
||
--Colette
|
||
|
||
"Each bird must sing with his own throat."
|
||
--Henrik Ibsen
|
||
|
||
"Learn as if you were going to live forever. Live as if you
|
||
were going to die tomorrow."
|
||
--Anon.
|
||
|
||
"Effort only fully releases its reward after a person refuses
|
||
to quit."
|
||
--Napoleon Hill
|
||
|
||
"Courage is rarely reckless or foolish . . . courage usually
|
||
involves a highly realistic estimate of the odds that must be
|
||
faced."
|
||
--Margaret Truman
|
||
|
||
"All serious daring starts from within."
|
||
--Eudora Welty
|
||
|
||
"Life is not a static thing. The only people who do not
|
||
change their minds are incompetents in asylums, and those in
|
||
cemeteries."
|
||
--Everett McKinley Dirksen
|
||
|
||
Seize the day -- it's the only one you can be sure you'll
|
||
have:
|
||
|
||
"Seize today, and put as little trust as you can in the
|
||
morrow."
|
||
--Horace
|
||
|
||
"When you cease to make a contribution, you begin to die."
|
||
--Eleanor Roosevelt
|
||
|
||
"Never give way to melancholy; resist it steadily, for the
|
||
habit will encroach."
|
||
--Sydney Smith
|
||
|
||
"If you don't want to work you have to work to earn enough
|
||
money so that you won't have to work."
|
||
--Ogden Nash
|
||
|
||
"Two can live as cheaply as one – if they both have good
|
||
jobs."
|
||
--Laurence Peter
|
||
|
||
"Our greatest glory consists not in never falling, but in
|
||
rising every time we fall."
|
||
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
|
||
|
||
"Happy people plan actions, they don't plan results."
|
||
--Dennis Wholey
|
||
|
||
"All problems become smaller if you don't dodge them, but
|
||
confront them."
|
||
--William F. Halsey
|
||
|
||
"The greatest pleasure of a dog is that you may make a fool
|
||
of yourself with him, and not only will he not scold you, but
|
||
he will make a fool of himself, too."
|
||
--Samuel Butler
|
||
|
||
"Only passions, great passions, can elevate the soul to great
|
||
things."
|
||
--Denis Diderot
|
||
|
||
"You grow up the day you have your first real laugh – at
|
||
yourself."
|
||
--Ethel Barrymore
|
||
|
||
"You win the victory when you yield to friends."
|
||
--Sophocles
|
||
|
||
Time is a fixed income and, as with any income, the real
|
||
problem facing most of us is how to live successfully within
|
||
our daily allotment."
|
||
--Margaret B. Johnstone
|
||
|
||
"What we love to do , we find time to do."
|
||
--John L. Spalding
|
||
|
||
"Patience and fortitude conquer all things."
|
||
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
|
||
|
||
"Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright
|
||
exposure. The fearful are caught as often as the bold."
|
||
--Helen Keller
|
||
|
||
"If you think you can, you can. And if you think you can't,
|
||
you're right."
|
||
--Mary Kay Ash
|
||
|
||
If you decide to go for it, do it with spirit:
|
||
"Sometimes success is due less to ability than to zeal."
|
||
--Charles Buxton
|
||
|
||
"A man can succeed at almost anything for which he has
|
||
unlimited enthusiasm."
|
||
--Charles M. Schwab
|
||
|
||
Sadness is not sadness...it is happiness in a black coat
|
||
Death is not death ... it is life that jumped off a cliff
|
||
Tears are not tears...they are balls of laughter dipped in salt
|
||
--Paul Mcartney
|
||
|
||
"Life is not always what one wants it to be, but to make the
|
||
best of it, as it is, is the only way of being happy."
|
||
--Jennie Jerome Churchill
|
||
|
||
"One enemy is too many; a hundred friends too few."
|
||
--Anon.
|
||
|
||
"Sharing what you have is more important than what you have."
|
||
--Albert M. Wells, Jr.
|
||
|
||
|
||
"Once the 'what' is decided, the 'how' always follows. We
|
||
must not make the 'how' an excuse for not facing and
|
||
accepting the 'what.'"
|
||
--Pearl Buck
|
||
|
||
"There's nothing like eavesdropping to show you that the
|
||
world outside your head is different from the world inside
|
||
your head."
|
||
--Thornton Wilder
|
||
|
||
"No one really listens to anyone else, and if you try it for
|
||
a while you'll see why."
|
||
--Mignon McLaughlin
|
||
|
||
Don't make the mistake of thinking that there's only one
|
||
course for a relationship to take:
|
||
|
||
"The biggest mistake is believing that there is one right way
|
||
to listen, to talk, to have a conversation – or a
|
||
relationship."
|
||
--Deborah Tannen
|
||
|
||
"Ideally, couples need three lives; one for him, one for her,
|
||
and one for them together."
|
||
Jacqueline Bisset
|
||
|
||
"A failure is a man who has blundered, but is not able to
|
||
cash in on the experience."
|
||
--Elbert Hubbard
|
||
|
||
"The more I want to get something done, the less I call it
|
||
work."
|
||
--Richard Bach
|
||
|
||
To maximize your chance to be happy, keep busy:
|
||
|
||
"The only way to avoid being miserable is not to have enough
|
||
leisure to wonder whether you are happy or not."
|
||
George Bernard Shaw
|
||
|
||
"Happiness walks on busy feet."
|
||
--Kitte Turmell
|
||
|
||
"To attain happiness in another world we need only to believe
|
||
something; to secure it in this world, we must do something."
|
||
--Charlotte Perkins Gilman
|
||
|
||
Sometimes acceptance is just as important as striving and
|
||
struggle:
|
||
|
||
"Acceptance of what happened is the first step to overcoming
|
||
the consequence of any misfortune."
|
||
--William James
|
||
|
||
"Things turn out best for people who make the best of the way
|
||
things turn out."
|
||
--Anon.
|
||
|
||
"What we call reality is an agreement that people have
|
||
arrived at to make life more livable."
|
||
--Louise Nevelson
|
||
|
||
"Don't let other people tell you what you want."
|
||
--Pat Riley
|
||
|
||
"We are what we believe we are."
|
||
--Benjamin N. Cardozo
|
||
|
||
"You must accept that you might fail; then, if you do your
|
||
best and still don't win, at least you can be satisfied that
|
||
you tried. If you don't accept failure as a possibility, you
|
||
don't set high goals, you don't branch out, you don't try –
|
||
you don't take the risk."
|
||
--Rosalynn Carter
|
||
|
||
"One never knows what each day is going to bring. The
|
||
important thing is to be open and ready for it."
|
||
--Henry Moore
|
||
|
||
"You cannot plan the future by the past."
|
||
--Edmund Burke
|
||
|
||
Try to find a workable balance between thought and feeling:
|
||
|
||
"All great discoveries are made by men whose feelings run
|
||
ahead of their thinking."
|
||
--C. H. Parkhurst
|
||
|
||
"The head never rules the heart, but just becomes its partner
|
||
in crime."
|
||
--Mignon McLaughlin
|
||
|
||
"Emotion has taught mankind to reason."
|
||
--Marquis de Vauvenargues
|
||
|
||
"Life is just a series of trying to make up your mind."
|
||
--Timothy Fuller
|
||
|
||
"Life's under no obligation to give us what we expect. We
|
||
take what we get and are thankful it's no worse than it is."
|
||
--Margaret Mitchell
|
||
|
||
"Yesterday's errors let yesterday cover."--Susan Coolidge
|
||
|
||
"To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom."--Bertrand Russell
|
||
|
||
"Worry often gives a small thing a big shadow."--Swedish proverb
|
||
|
||
Don't become obsessed with finding happiness:
|
||
|
||
"The happy people are failures because they are on such good
|
||
terms with themselves that they don't give a damn."--Agatha Christie
|
||
|
||
"Happiness comes uninvited: and the moment that you are
|
||
conscious that you are happy, you are no longer happy."--J. Krishnamurti
|
||
|
||
1.Some people complain because God put thorns on roses,while others praise Him for putting roses among thorns.
|
||
2.A person's true character is revealed by what he does when no one is
|
||
watching.
|
||
3.Although the tongue weighs very little, very few people are able to hold it.
|
||
4. Success in a marriage is more than finding the right person. It's
|
||
becoming the right person.
|
||
5.Falling down doesn't make you a failure, but staying down does.
|
||
6.Don't be afraid of pressure. Remember that pressure is what turns a lump of coal into a diamond.
|
||
7.Even a woodpecker owes his success to the fact that he uses his head.
|
||
8.The poorest of all men is not the man without a cent but the man without a dream.
|
||
9.The only preparation for tomorrow is the right use of today.
|
||
10.People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care.
|
||
11.Temper is what gets most of us into trouble. Pride is what keeps us
|
||
there.
|
||
12.The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little "extra."
|
||
|
||
13. The heart is the happiest when it beats for others.
|
||
14.One thing you can learn by watching the clock is that it passes time by
|
||
keeping its hands busy.
|
||
|
||
Obstacles are those frightful things u see when u take ur eyes of your goals.
|
||
|
||
"It takes as much courage to have tried and failed as it does
|
||
to have tried and succeeded." --Anne Morrow Lindbergh
|
||
|
||
"Pity costs nothing and ain't worth nothing." --Josh Billings
|
||
|
||
"More tears are shed over answered prayers than unanswered ones."
|
||
--Saint Teresa of Avila
|
||
|
||
You don't have to get all of it right all of the time:
|
||
"The essence of man is imperfection." --Norman Cousins
|
||
|
||
It's great to have a sense of humor, but remember there are limits:
|
||
|
||
"If it bends, it's funny; if it breaks, it's not funny." --Woody Allen
|
||
|
||
"Everything is funny as long as it's happening to someone else." --Will Rogers
|
||
|
||
"Each day comes bearing its own gifts. Untie the ribbons."
|
||
--Ruth Ann Schabaker
|
||
|
||
"Greed lessens what is gathered." --Arab proverb
|
||
|
||
"Be happy. It's one way of being wise." --Colette
|
||
|
||
|
||
--BEAUTIFUL WORDS TO LIVE BY
|
||
|
||
|
||
1. Anger is a condition in which the tongue works faster than
|
||
the mind.
|
||
|
||
|
||
2. You can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by
|
||
worrying over the future.
|
||
|
||
|
||
3. Love ......and you shall be loved.
|
||
|
||
|
||
4. God always gives His best to those who leave the choice
|
||
with Him.
|
||
|
||
|
||
5. All people smile in the same language.
|
||
|
||
|
||
6. A hug is a great gift..one size fits all. It can be
|
||
given for any occasion and it's easy to exchange.
|
||
|
||
|
||
7. Everyone needs to be loved...especially when they do not
|
||
|
||
deserve it.
|
||
|
||
|
||
8. The real measure of a man's wealth is what he has
|
||
invested in eternity.
|
||
|
||
|
||
10. Everything has beauty but not everyone sees it.
|
||
|
||
|
||
11. It's important for parents to live the same things they
|
||
teach.
|
||
|
||
|
||
12. If you fill your heart with regrets of yesterday and the
|
||
worries of tomorrow, you have no today to be thankful for.
|
||
|
||
|
||
13. Happy memories never wear out.... relive them as often
|
||
as you want.
|
||
|
||
|
||
14. Home is the place where we grumble the most, but are
|
||
often treated the best.
|
||
|
||
|
||
15. Man looks at outward appearance but the Lord looks
|
||
within.
|
||
|
||
|
||
16. The choice you make today will usually affect tomorrow.
|
||
|
||
|
||
17. Take time to laugh for it is the music of the soul.
|
||
|
||
|
||
18. If anyone speaks badly of you, live so none will believe it.
|
||
|
||
|
||
19. Patience is the ability to idle your motor when you feel.
|
||
like stripping your gears.
|
||
|
||
|
||
20. Love is strengthened by working through conflicts together.
|
||
|
||
|
||
21. The best thing parents can do for their children is to
|
||
love each other.
|
||
|
||
|
||
22. Harsh words break no bones but they do break hearts.
|
||
|
||
|
||
23. To get out of a difficulty, one usually must go through it.
|
||
|
||
|
||
24. We take for granted the things that we should be giving
|
||
thanks for.
|
||
|
||
|
||
25. Love is the only thing that can be divided without being
|
||
diminished.
|
||
|
||
|
||
26. Happiness is enhanced by others but does not depend upon
|
||
others.
|
||
|
||
|
||
27. You are richer today if you have laughed, given or
|
||
forgiven.
|
||
|
||
|
||
28. For every minute you are angry with someone, you lose 60
|
||
seconds of happiness that you can never get back.
|
||
|
||
|
||
29. Do what you can, for who you can, with what you have, and
|
||
where you are.
|
||
|
||
|
||
30. The best gifts to give
|
||
|
||
To your friend - loyalty
|
||
To your enemy - forgiveness;
|
||
To your boss - service;
|
||
To a child - a good example;
|
||
To your parents - gratitude and devotion;
|
||
To your mate - love and faithfulness;
|
||
To ME - ur true self.
|
||
|
||
"One must lose one's life in order to find it."
|
||
--Anne Murrow Lindbergh
|
||
|
||
"Enthusiasm is nothing more or less than faith in action."
|
||
--Henry Chester
|
||
|
||
"They can because they think they can."
|
||
--Virgil
|
||
|
||
Life is tough enough without manufacturing things to worry
|
||
about:
|
||
|
||
"Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary
|
||
ones that are unconquerable."
|
||
--Theodore N. Vail
|
||
|
||
"If I knew what I was so anxious about, I wouldn't be so
|
||
anxious."
|
||
--Mignon McLaughlin
|
||
|
||
"I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is
|
||
trying to please everybody."
|
||
--Bill Cosby
|
||
|
||
"A mistake is evidence that someone tried to do something."
|
||
--Anon."No animal ever invented anything as bad as drunkenness -- or
|
||
so good as drink."
|
||
--G. K. Chesterton
|
||
|
||
"People who drink to drown their sorrow should be told that
|
||
sorrow knows how to swim."
|
||
--Ann Landers
|
||
|
||
"Any man's life will be filled with constant and unexpected
|
||
encouragement if he makes up his mind to do his level best
|
||
each day."
|
||
--Booker T. Washington
|
||
|
||
"I walk firmer and more secure up hill than down."
|
||
--Michel de Montaigne
|
||
|
||
"We cannot solve life's problems except by solving them."
|
||
--M. Scott Peck
|
||
|
||
Don't even try to understand love:
|
||
|
||
"There isn't any formula or method. You learn to love by
|
||
loving -- by paying attention and doing what one thereby
|
||
discovers has to be done."
|
||
--Aldous Huxley
|
||
|
||
"Love involves a peculiar unfathomable combination of
|
||
understanding and misunderstanding."
|
||
--Diane Arbus
|
||
|
||
"If love is the answer, could you please rephrase the
|
||
question?"
|
||
--Lily Tomlin
|
||
|
||
|
||
"Hope is the feeling you have that the feeling you have isn't
|
||
permanent."
|
||
--Jean Kerr
|
||
|
||
"Rudeness is the weak man's limitation of strength."
|
||
--Eric Hoffer
|
||
|
||
"If you are sure you understand everything that is going on,
|
||
you are hopelessly confused."
|
||
--Walter Mondale
|
||
|
||
Use your memory positively, not just for nostalgia:
|
||
|
||
"One thing you will probably remember well is anytime you
|
||
forgive and forget."
|
||
--Franklin P. Jones
|
||
|
||
"God gave us memory that we might have roses in December."
|
||
--James M. Barrie
|
||
|
||
"We must always have old memories and young hopes."
|
||
--Arsene Houssaye
|
||
|
||
"No leader can be too far ahead of his followers."
|
||
--Eleanor Roosevelt
|
||
|
||
"Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity."
|
||
--Darrel Royal
|
||
|
||
"Excellence costs a great deal."
|
||
--May Sarton
|
||
|
||
Next time you start to groan at friend's pun, ask yourself:
|
||
Am I just be jealous?:
|
||
|
||
"A person reveals his character by nothing so clearly as the
|
||
joke he resents."
|
||
--G. C. Lichtenberg
|
||
|
||
To be successful in life, learn the art of prioritizing:
|
||
|
||
"One cannot collect all the beautiful shells on the beach."
|
||
--Anne Morrow Lindbergh
|
||
|
||
"Pick battles big enough to matter, small enough to win."
|
||
--Jonathan Kozol
|
||
|
||
"First things first, second things never."
|
||
--Shirley Conran
|
||
|
||
|
||
"Your future depends on many things, but mostly on you."
|
||
--Frank Tyger
|
||
|
||
"What we think, we become."
|
||
--Buddha
|
||
|
||
"Choosing a goal and sticking to it changes everything."
|
||
--Scott Reed
|
||
|
||
Be careful that money doesn't overshadow meaning in your
|
||
life:
|
||
|
||
"Success is important only to the extent that it puts one in
|
||
a position to do more things one likes to do."
|
||
--Sara Caldwell
|
||
|
||
"Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become
|
||
a man of value."
|
||
--Albert Einstein
|
||
|
||
"To me success means effectiveness in the world, that I am
|
||
able to carry my ideas and values into the world – that I am
|
||
ale to change it in positive ways."
|
||
--Maxine Hong Kingston
|
||
|
||
Be realistic in assessing your ability:
|
||
|
||
"If you count all your assets you always show a profit."
|
||
--Robert Quillen
|
||
|
||
"Analyzing what you haven't got as well as what you have is a
|
||
necessary ingredient of a career."
|
||
--Grace Moore
|
||
|
||
"Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second
|
||
when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied."
|
||
--Pearl S. Buck
|
||
|
||
"Life is a battle in which we fall from wounds we receive in
|
||
running away."
|
||
--William L. Sullivan
|
||
|
||
"Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow."
|
||
-- Swedish proverb
|
||
|
||
Whatever you do in life, don't get stuck:
|
||
|
||
"If you don't like something change it; if you can't change
|
||
it, change the way you think about it."
|
||
-- Mary Engelbreit
|
||
|
||
"You live longer once you realize that any time spent being
|
||
unhappy is wasted." -- Ruth E. Renkl
|
||
|
||
"Unhappiness is not knowing what we want and killing
|
||
ourselves to get it." --Don Herold
|
||
|
||
"Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry
|
||
only the individual you think you can't live without."
|
||
--Dr. James C. Dobson
|
||
|
||
The only good way to deal with fear is head-on:
|
||
|
||
"Anything I've ever done that ultimately was worthwhile...
|
||
initially scared me to death." -- Betty Bender
|
||
|
||
"If a man harbors any sort of fear, it . . . makes him
|
||
landlord to a ghost." -- Lloyd Douglas
|
||
|
||
"Kill the snake of doubt in your soul, crush the worms of
|
||
fear in your heart and mountains will move out of your way."
|
||
-- Kate Seredy
|
||
|
||
"You've got to do your own growing, no matter how tall your
|
||
grandfather was."
|
||
--Irish Proverb
|
||
|
||
"Once we accept our limits, we go beyond them."
|
||
-- Brendan Francis
|
||
|
||
"What do you want most to do? That's what I have to keep
|
||
asking myself, in the face of difficulties."
|
||
--Katherine Mansfield
|
||
|
||
Never doubt the value of doubt:
|
||
|
||
"If you don't control your mind, someone else will."
|
||
--John Allston
|
||
|
||
"Don't rent space to anyone in your head."
|
||
--Anon.
|
||
|
||
"I respect faith, but doubt is what gets you an education."
|
||
--Wilson Mizner
|
||
|
||
"There is only one quality worse than hardness of heart and
|
||
that is softness of head." --Teddy Roosevelt
|
||
|
||
"Creative minds have always been known to survive any kind of
|
||
bad training." --Anna Freud
|
||
|
||
"True success is overcoming the fear of being unsuccessful."
|
||
--Paul Sweeney
|
||
|
||
|
||
Use fear to your advantage:
|
||
|
||
"What you are afraid to do is a clear indicator of the next
|
||
thing you need to do." --Anon.
|
||
|
||
"I wanted to be scared again . . . I wanted to feel unsure
|
||
again. That's the only way I learn, the only way I feel
|
||
challenged." --Connie Chung
|
||
|
||
"Constant exposure to dangers will breed contempt for them."
|
||
--Seneca
|
||
|
||
"The secret of happiness is this: Let your interests be as
|
||
wide as possible, and let your reactions to the things and
|
||
persons that interest you be as far as possible friendly
|
||
rather than hostile." --Bertrand Russell
|
||
|
||
"Talent is what you possess; genius is what possesses you."
|
||
--Malcolm Cowley
|
||
|
||
You can be rational without being too logical:
|
||
|
||
"It is slavery to live in the mind unless it has become part
|
||
of the body."
|
||
--Kahlil Gibran
|
||
|
||
"The remarkable thing about the human mind is its range of
|
||
limitations."
|
||
--Celia Green
|
||
|
||
"The mind can also be an erogenous zone."
|
||
--Raquel Welch
|
||
|
||
"We learn from experience. A man never wakes up his second
|
||
baby just to see it smile."
|
||
--Grace Williams
|
||
|
||
|
||
"A man never discloses his own character so clearly as when
|
||
he describes another's."
|
||
--Jean Paul Richter
|
||
|
||
|
||
Philosophy is terrific, but you still have to make a living:
|
||
|
||
"Money is like a sixth sense, without which you cannot make a
|
||
complete use of the other five."
|
||
--WS. Somerset Maughm
|
||
|
||
|
||
"The impossible is often the untried."
|
||
--Jim Goodwin
|
||
|
||
"Silence is one of the hardest things to refute."
|
||
--Josh Billings
|
||
|
||
|
||
"The family you come from isn't as important as the family
|
||
you're going to have."
|
||
--Ring Lardner
|
||
|
||
When you travel, leave the beaten path and learn something
|
||
new:
|
||
|
||
"If you reject the food, ignore the customs, fear the
|
||
religion and avoid the people, you might better stay home."
|
||
--James Michener
|
||
|
||
"There is nothing mysterious about originality, nothing
|
||
fantastic. Originality is merely the step beyond."
|
||
--Louis Danz
|
||
|
||
"It is awfully important to know what is and what is not your
|
||
business."
|
||
--Gertrude Stein
|
||
|
||
Men are like fine wine. They all start out like grapes, and
|
||
it's our job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until
|
||
they mature into something you'd like to have dinner with.
|
||
|
||
Accept and believe in yourself:
|
||
|
||
"I care not what others think of what I do, but I care very
|
||
much about what I think of what I do. That is character!
|
||
--Teddy Roosevelt
|
||
|
||
"From self alone expect applause."
|
||
--Marion L. Burton
|
||
|
||
|
||
"One machine can do the work of fifty ordinary men. No
|
||
machine can do the work of one extraordinary man."
|
||
--Elbert Hubbard
|
||
|
||
Don't spread yourself thin:
|
||
|
||
"To do two things at once is to do neither."
|
||
--Publius Syrus
|
||
|
||
"Concentrate your energies, your thoughts and your
|
||
capital.... The wise man puts all his eggs in one basket and
|
||
watches the basket."
|
||
--Andrew Carnegie
|
||
|
||
"Each man is capable of doing one thing well. If he attempts
|
||
several, he will fail to achieve distinction in any."
|
||
--Plato
|
||
|
||
"If you can't accept losing, you can't win."
|
||
--Vince Lombardi
|
||
|
||
"Putting off an easy thing makes it hard. Putting off a hard
|
||
think makes it impossible."
|
||
--George C. Lorimer
|
||
|
||
"Music melts all the separate parts of our bodies together."
|
||
--Anais Nin
|
||
|
||
|
||
"The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary
|
||
so that the necessary may speak."
|
||
--Hans Hoffman
|
||
|
||
"Don't sit down and wait for the opportunities to come; you
|
||
have to get up and make them."
|
||
--Madame C. J. Walker
|
||
|
||
"The key to change . . . is to let go of fear."
|
||
--Rosanne Cash
|
||
|
||
"Production is not the application of tools to materials, but
|
||
logic to work."
|
||
--Peter Drucker
|
||
|
||
"Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after
|
||
others have let go."
|
||
--William Feather
|
||
|
||
"Success generally depends upon knowing how long it takes to
|
||
succeed."
|
||
--Charles de Montesquieu
|
||
|
||
"He that can't endure the bad will not live to see the good."
|
||
--Yiddish proverb
|
||
|
||
"Wishing does not make a poor man rich."
|
||
--Arab proverb
|
||
|
||
"Good luck is often with the man who doesn't include it in
|
||
his plans."
|
||
--Anon.
|
||
|
||
"The object of education is to prepare the young to educate
|
||
themselves throughout their lives."
|
||
--Robert Maynard Hutchins
|
||
|
||
"Education is what survives when what has been learnt has
|
||
been forgotten."
|
||
--B. F. Skinner
|
||
|
||
"Only fools and dead men don't change their minds. Fools
|
||
won't and dead men can't."
|
||
--John H. Patterson
|
||
|
||
"A day is a span of time no one is wealthy enough to waste."
|
||
--Anon.
|
||
|
||
|
||
"Necessity is the mother of taking chances."
|
||
--Mark Twain.
|
||
|
||
Don't just think, act!:
|
||
|
||
"One's feelings waste themselves in words; they ought all to
|
||
be distilled into action . . . which bring results."
|
||
--Florence Nightingale
|
||
|
||
"If you can talk brilliantly about a problem, it can create
|
||
the consoling illusion that it has been mastered."
|
||
--Stanley Kubrick
|
||
|
||
"We have too many sounding words and too few actions that
|
||
correspond with them."
|
||
--Abigail Adams
|
||
|
||
"The time is always right to do what is right."
|
||
--Martin Luther King, Jr.
|
||
|
||
"To be what we are, and to become what we are capable of
|
||
becoming, is the only end of life."
|
||
--Robert Louis Stevenson
|
||
|
||
"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of
|
||
their dreams."
|
||
--Eleanor Roosevelt
|
||
|
||
|
||
"You can only predict things after they have happened."
|
||
--Eugene Ionesco
|
||
|
||
Never mind tomorrow, TODAY is the day:
|
||
|
||
"We create our fate every day we live."
|
||
--Henry Miller
|
||
|
||
"Write it on your heart that every day is the best day of the
|
||
year."
|
||
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
|
||
|
||
"Happiness is not the absence of conflict, but the ability to
|
||
cope with it."
|
||
--Anon.
|
||
|
||
"Changes are not predictable; but to deny them is to be an
|
||
accomplice to one's own unnecessary vegetation."
|
||
--Gail Sheehy
|
||
|
||
"There are two kinds of talent, man-made talent and God-given
|
||
talent. With man-made talent you have to work very hard.
|
||
With God-given talent, you just touch it up once in a while."
|
||
--Pearl Bailey
|
||
|
||
"We have to dare to be ourselves, however frightening or
|
||
strange that self may prove to be."
|
||
--May Sarton
|
||
|
||
"If you wait for inspiration you'll be standing on the corner
|
||
after the parade is a mile down the street."
|
||
--Ben Nicholas
|
||
|
||
To get on in life, face forward:
|
||
|
||
"Life is a series of collisions with the future; it is not a
|
||
sum of what we have been but what we yearn to be."
|
||
--Jose Ortega y Gassett
|
||
|
||
"The past always looks better than it was. It's only pleasant
|
||
because it isn't here."
|
||
--Finley Peter Dunne
|
||
|
||
"We are tomorrow's past."
|
||
--Mary Webb
|
||
|
||
"To remain young one must change."
|
||
--Alexander Chase
|
||
|
||
"The most exhausting thing in life is being insincere."
|
||
--Anne Morrow Lindbergh
|
||
|
||
"Nice guys finish last."
|
||
--Leo Durocher
|
||
|
||
"Without victory there is no survival!"
|
||
--Winston Churchill
|
||
|
||
|
||
"If we cannot do what we will, we must will what we can."
|
||
--Yiddish proverb
|
||
|
||
At work, especially, be discrete:
|
||
|
||
"Set a watch, O Lord, before my mouth, keep the door of my
|
||
lips."
|
||
--Bible (Psalms, 141:3)
|
||
|
||
"It does not always pay to have a golden tongue unless one
|
||
has the ability to hold it."
|
||
--Paul Johnson
|
||
|
||
"Drink the first. Sip the second slowly. Skip the third."
|
||
--Knute Rockne
|
||
|
||
"The world belongs to the enthusiast who keeps cool."
|
||
--William McFee
|
||
|
||
"There are three ingredients in the good life: learning,
|
||
earning and yearning."
|
||
--Christopher Morely
|
||
|
||
"Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has
|
||
many – not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have
|
||
some."
|
||
--Charles Dickens
|
||
|
||
"Applause is the spur of noble minds, the end and aim of weak
|
||
ones."
|
||
--Charles Caleb Colton
|
||
|
||
"No one person can possibly combine all the elements supposed
|
||
to make up what everyone means by friendship."
|
||
--Francis Marion Crawford
|
||
|
||
Vary your friendships:
|
||
|
||
"I cannot concentrate all my friendship on any single one of
|
||
my friends because no one is complete enough in himself."
|
||
--Anais Nin
|
||
|
||
"Fortify yourself with a flock of friends! You can select
|
||
them at random, write to one, dine with one, visit one, or
|
||
take your problems to one. There is always at least one who
|
||
will understand, inspire, and give you the lift you may need
|
||
at the time."
|
||
--George Matthew Adams
|
||
|
||
"If you're smart, you'll be humble. There always is somebody
|
||
who hasn't read a book and knows twice as much as you do."
|
||
--David Duchonvy
|
||
|
||
"The healthy and strong individual is the one who asks for
|
||
help when he needs it."
|
||
--Rona Barrett
|
||
|
||
If you find yourself in a heated argument, make sure it's
|
||
about something more than hot air:
|
||
|
||
"The most savage controversies are about matters as to which
|
||
there is no good evidence either way."
|
||
--Bertrand Russell
|
||
|
||
"How many a dispute could have been deflated into a single
|
||
paragraph if the disputants had dared to define their terms."
|
||
--Aristotle
|
||
|
||
"There's only one thing worse than the man who will argue
|
||
over anything, and that's the man who will argue over
|
||
nothing."
|
||
--Laurence Peter
|
||
|
||
We talk on principle, but we act on interest."
|
||
--Walter Savage Landor
|
||
|
||
|
||
If you're feeling down, try throwing yourself into your work:
|
||
|
||
"Nobody ever drowned in his own sweat."
|
||
--Ann Landers
|
||
|
||
"If you're looking for perfection, look in the mirror. If you
|
||
find it there, expect it elsewhere."
|
||
--Malcolm Forbes
|
||
|
||
"Show me a person who has never made a mistake and I'll show
|
||
you someone who has never achieved much."
|
||
--Joan Collins
|
||
|
||
|
||
"Many a man curses the rain that falls upon his head, and
|
||
knows not that it brings abundance to drive away hunger."
|
||
--St. Basil
|
||
|
||
|
||
"The block of granite, which was an obstacle in the path of
|
||
the weak, becomes a stepping stone in the path of the
|
||
strong."
|
||
--Thomas Carlyle
|
||
|
||
". . . if you can tell the difference between good advice and
|
||
bad advice, you don't need advice."
|
||
--Laurence J. Peter
|
||
|
||
"If someone gives you so-called good advice, do the opposite;
|
||
you can be sure it will be the right thing nine out of ten
|
||
times."
|
||
--Anselm Feuerbach
|
||
|
||
"Old people love to give good advice; it compensates them for
|
||
their inability to set a bad example."
|
||
--Duc de La Rochefoucald
|
||
|
||
"Never does the human soul appear so strong as when it
|
||
foregoes revenge, and dares forgive an injury."
|
||
--E. H. Chapin
|
||
|
||
"Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if
|
||
you just sit there."
|
||
--Will Rogers
|
||
|
||
"As every thread of gold is valuable, so is every moment of
|
||
time."
|
||
--John Mason
|
||
|
||
Don't let your limitations overshadow your talents:
|
||
|
||
"Learning too soon our limitations, we never learn our
|
||
powers."
|
||
--Mignon McLaughlin
|
||
|
||
Avoid compulsively making things worse:
|
||
|
||
"If it ain't broke, don't fix it."
|
||
--Anon.
|
||
|
||
"When it is not necessary to make a decision, it is necessary
|
||
not to make a decision."
|
||
--Lord Falkland
|
||
|
||
"Better is the enemy of good."
|
||
--Anon.
|
||
|
||
"There is a time for departure even when there's no certain
|
||
place to go."
|
||
--Tennessee Williams
|
||
|
||
"The man who insists on seeing with perfect clearness before
|
||
he decides, never decides."
|
||
--Henri Fredric Amiel
|
||
|
||
"The difficulties of life are intended to make us better, not
|
||
bitter."
|
||
--Anon.
|
||
|
||
"Change is the watchword of progression."
|
||
--Ella Wheeler Wilcox
|
||
|
||
Marriage is a three-ring circus: engagement ring, wedding
|
||
ring, and suffering!
|
||
|
||
"The trouble with many married people is that they are trying
|
||
to get more out of marriage than there is in it."
|
||
--Elbert Hubbard
|
||
|
||
"This life is not for complaint, but for satisfaction."
|
||
--Henry David Thoreau
|
||
|
||
"Think ahead....It wasn't raining when Noah built the ark."
|
||
--Howard Ruff
|
||
|
||
"If you think you can, you can. And if you think you can't,
|
||
you're right."
|
||
--Mary Kay Ash
|
||
|
||
"One of the keys to happiness is a bad memory."
|
||
--Rita Mae Brown
|
||
|
||
"It isn't our position, but our disposition, that makes us
|
||
happy."
|
||
--Anon.
|
||
|
||
"The course of life is unpredictable . . . no one can write
|
||
his autobiography in advance."
|
||
--Abraham Joshua Heschel
|
||
|
||
"Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince, and dinner
|
||
like a pauper."
|
||
--Adelle Davis
|
||
|
||
|
||
"People ask you for criticism, but they only want praise."
|
||
--W. Somerset Maughm
|
||
|
||
"Vanity is so secure in the heart of man that everyone wants
|
||
to be admired: even I who write this, and you who read this."
|
||
--Blaise Pascal
|
||
|
||
"You can flatter any man by telling him he's the kind of man
|
||
who can't be flattered."
|
||
--Laurence J. Peter
|
||
|
||
"In the game of life, nothing is less important than the
|
||
score at half time."
|
||
--Anon.
|
||
|
||
"Laugh at yourself first, before anyone else can."
|
||
--Elsa Maxwell
|
||
|
||
"Acceptance of what has happened is the first step to
|
||
overcoming the consequences of any misfortune."
|
||
--William James
|
||
|
||
Learn from how people in the arts react to criticism:
|
||
"Pay no attention to what the critics say; no statue has ever
|
||
been put up to a critic."
|
||
--Jean Sibelius
|
||
|
||
"A critic is someone who never actually goes to the battle,
|
||
yet who afterwards comes out shooting the wounded."
|
||
--Tyne Daly
|
||
|
||
"The stones that Critics hurl with Harsh Intent / A Man may
|
||
use to build a Monument."
|
||
--Arthur Guiterman
|
||
|
||
"Good people do not need laws to tell them to act responsibly, while bad people will find a way around the laws."
|
||
--Plato (427-347 B.C.)
|
||
|
||
|
||
"Trouble is a sieve through which we sift our acquaintances. Those too big to pass through are our friends."
|
||
--Arlene Francis
|
||
|
||
"My one regret in life is that I'm not someone else."
|
||
--Woody Allen
|
||
|
||
"The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right place but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment." --Dorothy Nevill
|
||
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"I must govern the clock, not be governed by it."
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--Golda Meir
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"If you have no will to change it, you have no right to criticize it." --Anon.
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"Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication." --Leonardo da Vinci
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"The trouble about man is twofold. He cannot learn truths which are too complicated; he forgets truths which are too simple." --Rebecca West
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One of the remarkable things about life is that it's never so bad that
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it can't get worse.
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"Our entire life--consists ultimately in accepting ourselves as we are."
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--Jean Anouilh
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"The greatest discovery of my generation is that a man can alter his life simply by altering his attitude of mind."
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--William James
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"A good scare is worth more to a man than good advice."
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--Edgar Watson Howe
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"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing that you will make one." --Elbert Hubbard
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"Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names."
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--John F. Kennedy
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Try to be honest about yourself:
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'Almost every man wastes part of his life in attempts to display qualities which he does not possess, and to gain applause which he cannot keep." --Dr. Samuel Johnson
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"'I have done that,' says my memory. 'I cannot have done that' - says my pride, and remains adamant. At last - memory yields." --Friedrich Nietzsche
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"Up to a certain point every man is what he thinks he is."
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--F. H. Bradley
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"If it is to be, it's up to me." --Anon
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"There are only two stimulants to one's best efforts: the fear of punishment, and the hope of reward." --John M. Wilson
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The number of people watching you is directly proportional
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to the stupidity of your action.
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How long a minute is depends on
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what side of the bathroom door you're on.
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"More powerful than the will to win is the courage to begin."
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--Anon.
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"It's weak and despicable to go on wanting things and not trying to get them." --Joanna Field
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"Life is 10 percent what you make it, and 90 percent how you take it." --Irving Berlin
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"Experience tells you what to do; confidence allows you to do it." --Stan Smith
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"The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it." --Chinese proverb
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"Change occurs when one becomes what she is, not when she tries to become what she is not."
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--Ruth P. Freedman
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|
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Women are like elephants to me. I like to look at them but I wouldn't want to own one."
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--W.C.Fields
|
||
|
||
Never born, never died, only visited this planet earth between Dec.11, 1930 and Jan 19, 1990
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--Epitah of Osho (Bagwan Rajneesh)
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"make the most of all that comes and the least of all that goes." --Sara Teasdale
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"Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." --Abraham Lincoln
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||
"To disbelieve is easy; to scoff is simple; to have faith is harder." --Louis L'Amour
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||
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||
"Class is… the sure-footedness that comes with having proved you can meet life." --Ann Landers
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||
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||
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||
"Anyone who has ever struggled with poverty knows how extremely expensive it is to be poor." --James Baldwin
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||
|
||
"Ideas pull the trigger, but instinct loads the gun." --Don Marquis
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||
|
||
"The crisis of today is the joke of tomorrow."
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||
--H. G. Wells
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||
|
||
"Living is a constant process of deciding what we are going to do." --Jose Ortega y Gasset
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||
|
||
"Confidence is contagious. So is lack of confidence."
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||
--Vince Lombardi
|
||
|
||
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||
Am I not destroying my enemies when I make friends of them?
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||
- Abraham Lincoln
|
||
|
||
"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage."
|
||
--Anais Nin
|
||
|
||
"The difference between perseverance and obstinacy is that one comes from a strong will, and the other from a strong won't."
|
||
--Henry Ward Beecher
|
||
|
||
"You have reached the pinnacle of success as soon as you become uninterested in money, compliments or publicity."
|
||
--Dr. O. A. Battista
|
||
|
||
Grief is depression in proportion to circumstance; depression is grief out of proportion to circumstance.
|
||
-- Andrew Solomon
|
||
|
||
"If you want to keep something concealed from your enemy, don't disclose it to your friend."
|
||
--Solomon Ibn Gabirol
|
||
|
||
"Nobody will keep the thing he hears to himself, and nobody will repeat just what he hears and no more."
|
||
--Seneca
|
||
|
||
"Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds."
|
||
Albert Einstein (1879-1955)
|
||
|
||
"Ah, but a man's reach should exceed his grasp – or what's a heaven for?" --Robert Browning
|
||
|
||
|
||
"Years wrinkle the face, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul." --Watterson Lowe
|
||
|
||
"Anyone who limits his vision to memories of yesterday is already dead." --Lilly Langtry
|
||
|
||
"We all find time to do what we really want to do."
|
||
--William Feather
|
||
|
||
"If you board the wrong train, it is no use running along the corridor in the other direction."
|
||
--Dietrich Bonhoeffer
|
||
|
||
"Whatever you are trying to avoid won't go away until you confront it." --Anon.
|
||
|
||
"Nobody ever died of laughter."
|
||
--Max Beerbohm
|
||
|
||
"The only problems money can solve are money problems."
|
||
--Laurence Peter
|
||
|
||
"Money costs too much."
|
||
--Ross McDonald
|
||
|
||
"Big shots are only little shots who keep shooting."
|
||
--Christopher Morely
|
||
|
||
"The closer one gets to the top, the more one finds there is no 'top.'" --Nancy Barcus
|
||
|
||
"Nobody holds a good opinion of a man who holds a low opinion of himself." --Anthony Trollope
|
||
|
||
"A professional is someone who can do his best work when he doesn't feel like it." --Alistair Cooke
|
||
|
||
"I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody." --Bill Cosby
|
||
|
||
" Great minds have purposes, others have wishes."
|
||
- Washington Irving (1783-1859)
|
||
|
||
"In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends. "
|
||
- Martin Luther King Jr. (1929-1968)
|
||
|
||
"Generally the theories we believe we call facts, and the facts we believe we call theories."
|
||
--Felix Cohen
|
||
|
||
"Nothing is so firmly believed as that which is least known."
|
||
--Michel de Montaigne
|
||
|
||
"We are inclined to believe those we do not know, because they have never deceived us."
|
||
--Samuel Johnson
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