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LOVE YOUR ENEMY
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LOVE YOUR ENEMY
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The prescription to love your enemy and to requite evil with good is sometimes
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thought of as an impractical and perfectionist ethic, able to be practiced only
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by a few exceptional souls. But, in fact, this doctrine is widely taught in
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all religions as a fundamental principle for pursuing relationships with
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others. The person who insists upon vengeance or retribution is not
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necessarily committing a crime, but neither will his act of revenge be helpful
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to spiritual advancement. Revenge, which requites evil with evil, only
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multiplies evil in the world, while love, by in which one strives to overcome
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evil with good, spreads goodness in the world.
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True love is unconditional and impartial--thus the metaphor of the sun that
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shines down on all life. It is tested and proven by encounters with those who
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are difficult to love. Where true love prevails, there no enemies are found.
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The concluding passages dispute the prescription to love your enemy when it
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apparently contravenes the principles of justice and right. Sometimes the best
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way to love an evil person is to make him face justice, or to hinder him from
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doing wrong. Nevertheless, these corrective actions should be done with a
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loving heart and with the other person's welfare uppermost in mind.
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"He abused me, he beat me, he defeated me, he robbed me!" In those who harbor
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such thoughts hatred is not appeased.
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"He abused me, he beat me, he defeated me, he robbed me!" In those who do not
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harbor such thoughts hatred is appeased.
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Hatreds never cease through hatred in this world; through love alone they
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cease. This is an eternal law.
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1.Buddhism. Dhammapada 3-5
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Dhammapada 3-5: Cf. Jerusalem Talmud, Nedarim 9.4, p. 850.
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You have heard that it was said, "You shall love your neighbor and hate your
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enemy." But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute
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you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for he makes his
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sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the
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unjust. For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even
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the tax collectors do the same? And if you salute only your brethren, what
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more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? You,
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therefore, must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
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2.Christianity. Matthew 5.43-48
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My Lord! Others have fallen back in showing compassion to their benefactors as
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you have shown compassion even to your malefactors. All this is unparalleled.
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3.Jainism. Vitaragastava 14.5
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Of the adage, Only a good man knows how to like people, knows how to dislike
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them, Confucius said, "He whose heart is in the smallest degree set upon
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Goodness will dislike no one."
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4.Confucianism. Analects 4.3-4
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I should be like the sun, shining universally on all without seeking thanks or
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reward, able to take care of all sentient beings even if they are bad, never
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giving up on my vows on this account, not abandoning all sentient beings
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because one sentient being is evil.
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5.Buddhism. Garland Sutra 23
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What kind of love is this that to another can shift? Says Nanak, True lovers
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are those who are forever absorbed in the Beloved. Whoever discriminates
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between treatment held good or bad, Is not a true lover--he rather is caught in
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calculations.
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6.Sikhism. Adi Granth, Asa-ki-Var, M.2, p. 474
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The sage has no fixed [personal] ideas.
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He regards the people's ideas as his own.
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I treat those who are good with goodness,
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And I also treat those who are not good with goodness.
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Thus goodness is attained.
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I am honest with those who are honest,
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And I am also honest with those who are dishonest.
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Thus honesty is attained.
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7.Taoism. Tao Te Ching 49
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Matthew 5.43-48: Cf. 1 John 4.18-20, p. 209; also Genesis 32:3-20, pp. 556-57,
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on Jacob's love for Esau. Cf. Sun Myung Moon, 10-20-73, pp. 850f. Asa-ki-Var,
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M.2: Cf. Wadhans, M.1, p. 210; Slok, Farid, p. 365. Garland Sutra 23: Cf.
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Mahaparinirvana Sutra 15.20, pp. 211f.; Perfection of Wisdom in Eight Thousand
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Lines 321-22, p. 829; Garland Sutra 23, p. 837; Sikshasamuccaya 280-81, p. 837;
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Digha Nikaya xiii.77, p. 211; Metta Sutta, p. 209.
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It may be that God will ordain love between you and those whom you hold as
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enemies. For God has power over all things; and God is Oft-forgiving, Most
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Merciful.
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8.Islam. Qur'an 60.7
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Aid an enemy before you aid a friend, to subdue hatred.
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9.Judaism. Tosefta, Baba Metzia 2.26
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Do good to him who has done you an injury.
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10.Taoism. Tao Te Ching 63
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Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
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11.Christianity. Romans 12.21
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God said, "Resemble Me; just as I repay good for evil so do you also repay good
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for evil."
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12.Judaism. Exodus Rabbah 26.2
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Conquer anger by love. Conquer evil by good. Conquer the stingy by giving.
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Conquer the liar by truth.
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13.Buddhism. Dhammapada 223
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Man should subvert anger by forgiveness, subdue pride by modesty, overcome
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hypocrisy with simplicity, and greed by contentment.
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14.Jainism. Samanasuttam 136
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May generosity triumph over niggardliness,
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May love triumph over contempt,
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May the true-spoken word triumph over the false-spoken word,
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May truth triumph over falsehood.
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15.Zoroastrianism. Yasna 60.5
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The good deed and the evil deed are not alike. Repel the evil deed with one
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which is better, then lo!, he between whom and you there was enmity shall
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become as though he were a bosom friend.
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But none is granted it save those who are steadfast, and none is granted it
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save a person of great good fortune.
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16.Islam. Qur'an 41.34-35
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Dhammapada 223: Cf. James 1.20, p. 793; Genesis 32.3-20, pp. 556f.
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A superior being does not render evil for evil; this is a maxim one should
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observe; the ornament of virtuous persons is their conduct. One should never
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harm the wicked or the good or even criminals meriting death. A noble soul
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will ever exercise compassion even towards those who enjoy injuring others or
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those of cruel deeds when they are actually committing them--for who is without
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fault?
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17.Hinduism. Ramayana, Yuddha Kanda 115
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The reason why God does not punish even though He may see an enemy and have the
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urge to kill him and get revenge, is that He is thinking of the enemy's
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parents, wife and children who all love. Knowing all too well their
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unparalleled love toward that person, God cannot strike him with His iron rod.
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When you really understand such a heart of God, could you take revenge on your
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enemy? When you know all these things, you would even go and help that person.
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In this manner one comes closer to the Great Way of heavenly Principle, that
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Great Way which tries to embrace everything centering on love. When this
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happens earth will shake and induce even God to shed tears. "You truly
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resemble me. How happy I am!" He will ex- claim. God always looks at things
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in that perspective. This is how we should understand the teaching to love
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one's enemy. The source of such a power to love your enemy is neither
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knowledge, nor money, nor earthly power. It is only true love.
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18.Unification Church. Sun Myung Moon, 3-30-90
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Someone said, "What do you say concerning the principle that injury should be
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recompensed with kindness?" The Master said, "With what will you then
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recompense kindness? Recompense injury with justice, and recompense kindness
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with kindness."
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19.Confucianism. Analects 14.36
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According to Anas ibn Malik, the Prophet said, "Help your brother whether he is
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oppressor or oppressed."
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According to Anas, after the Messenger of God said, "Help your brother whether
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he is oppressor or oppressed," Anas replied to him, "O Messenger of God, a man
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who is oppressed I am ready to help, but how does one help an oppressor?" "By
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hindering him doing wrong," he said.
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20.Islam. Hadith of Bukhari
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Ramayana: Cf. Yajur Veda 36.18, p. 210. Sun Myung Moon, 3-30-90: See Sun Myung
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Moon, 10-20-73, pp. 850f. Analects 14.36: This and the following passage
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dispute the notion that to love your enemy always means to do kindness, if that
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would not uphold justice. Confucius is here disputing the proverb from the Tao
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Te Ching 63, quoted above. Yet Confucius also praises the ideal of universal
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benevolence in Analects 4.3-4, above. Apparently, even though a man may like an
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evildoer and want to help him, sometimes doing him a kindness will not be
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helpful; particularly if that 'kindness' only encourages him to do more evil.
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Tougher measures may be appropriate, but these, too, should be motivated by
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genuine love--by a parental concern for the wrongdoer's welfare. See also
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Yogachara Bhumi Shastra, p. 416; Sanhedrin 72a, p. 415. Hadith of Bukhari: See
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the previous note.
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