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Adultery
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ADULTERY
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The foremost of sinful actions is adultery or fornication. No other sin has
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such a baneful effect on the spiritual life. Because it is committed in
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secret, by mutual consent, and often without fear of the law, adultery is
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especially a sin against God and against the goal of life. Modern secular
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societies can do little to inhibit adultery and sexual promiscuity. Only the
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norms of morality which are founded on religion can effectively curb this sin.
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Most of the passages collected here condemn adultery, fornication, and sexual
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promiscuity in general. A number of passages seek to demarcate limits of
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behavior that verge on fornication. At the conclusion are passages on related
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behaviors: divorce and homosexuality.
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Approach not adultery: for it is a shameful deed and an evil, opening the road
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to other evils.
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1. Islam. Qur'an 17.32
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Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled;
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for God will judge the immoral and the adulterous.
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2. Christianity. Hebrews 13.4
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We find that to every sin God is long-suffering, except to the sin of
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unchastity. Rabbi Azariah said, "All things can God overlook save lewdness."
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3. Judaism. Midrash, Leviticus Rabbah 23.9
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Be sure of this, that no fornicator or impure man... has any inheritance in the
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kingdom of Christ and of God.
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4. Christianity. Bible, Ephesians 5.5
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Neither fornicate, for whosoever does that shall meet the price of sin--doubled
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shall be the chastisement for him on the Resurrection Day.
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5. Islam. Qur'an 25.68-69
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Violating and misusing love is the gravest of all crimes. Abusing love is a
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greater crime than cutting the universal root of life [murder].
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6. Unification Church. Sun Myung Moon, 3-20-77
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Both learning and the practice of the Teaching are lost to him who is given to
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sexual intercourse. He employs himself wrongly. That is what is ignoble in
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him.
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7. Buddhism. Sutta Nipata 815
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A wise man has nothing to do with lust. Lust is nothing but death, and lack of
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it is serenity. How can one who perceives this indulge in wanton behavior?
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8. Jainism. Acarangasutra 2.61
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Four misfortunes befall a careless man who commits adultery: acquisition of
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demerit, disturbed sleep, third, blame; and fourth, a state of woe. There is
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acquisition of demerit as well as evil destiny. Brief is the joy of the
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frightened man and woman. The king imposes a heavy punishment. Hence no man
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should frequent another man's wife.
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9. Buddhism. Dhammapada 309-10
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When a family declines, ancient traditions are destroyed. With them are lost
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the spiritual foundations for life, and the family loses its sense of unity.
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Where there is no sense of unity, the women of the family become corrupt; and
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with the corruption of its women, society is plunged into chaos. Social chaos
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is hell for the family and for those who have destroyed the family as well.
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10. Hinduism. Bhagavad Gita 1.40-42
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Immorality in the house is like a worm in the vegetables.
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11. Judaism. Talmud, Sota 3b
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Do not approach thy neighbor's wife or maids.
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12. Taoism. Tract of the Quiet Way
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Let those who cannot find a match keep chaste till God give them independence
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by His grace.
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13. Islam. Qur'an 24.33
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Whoever has illicit affairs with the wives of his relatives or friends, either
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by force or through mutual consent, he is to be known as an outcast.
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14. Buddhism. Sutta Nipata 123
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The philanderer lusting after numerous women does not give up seeking in
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others' homes. What he does daily only brings regrets-- In sorrow and greed he
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is shriveled up.
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15. Sikhism. Adi Granth, Dhanasari, M.5, p. 672
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Sutta Nipata 815: Cf. Sutra of Forty-two Sections 25, p. 929.
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A man should not think incontinently of another's wife, much less address her
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to that end; for such a man will be reborn in a future life as a creeping
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insect. He who commits adultery is punished both here and hereafter; for his
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days in this world are cut short, and when dead he falls into hell.
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16. Hinduism. Vishnu Purana 3.11
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The lips of a loose woman drip honey,
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and her speech is smoother than oil;
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but in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
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sharp as a two-edged sword.
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Her feet go down to death;
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her steps follow the path to Sheol;
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she does not take heed to the path of life;
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her ways wander, and she does not know it....
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Drink water from your own cistern,
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flowing water from your own well.
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Should your springs be scattered abroad,
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streams of water in the streets?
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Let them be for yourself alone,
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and not for strangers with you.
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Let your fountain be blessed,
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and rejoice in the wife of your youth,
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a lovely hind, a graceful doe.
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Let her affection fill you at all times with delight,
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be infatuated always by her love.
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Why should you be infatuated, my son, with a loose woman
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and embrace the bosom of an adventuress?
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For a man's ways are before the eyes of the Lord,
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and he watches all his paths.
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The iniquities of the wicked ensnare him,
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and he is caught in the toils of his sin.
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He dies for lack of discipline,
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and because of his great folly he is lost.
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17. Judaism and Christianity. Proverbs 5.3-23
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If you are handsome, do not go astray after lewdness, but honor your Creator,
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and fear Him, and praise Him with the beauty which He has given you.
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18. Judaism. Pesikta Rabbati 127a
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The body is not meant for immorality, but for the Lord... Do you not know that
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your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I therefore take the members of
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Christ and make them members of a prostitute? Never! Do you not know that he
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who joins himself a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is
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written, "The two shall become one flesh." But he who is united to the Lord
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becomes one spirit with him. Shun immorality. Every other sin which a man
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commits is outside the body; but the immoral man sins against his own body. Do
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you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, which
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you have from God?
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19. Christianity. 1 Corinthians 6.13-19
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Offering presents to a woman, romping with her, touching her ornaments and
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dress, sitting with her on a bed, all these are considered adulterous acts.
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20. Hinduism. Laws of Manu 8.357
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A monk who, with sexual desire and a perverse intention, contacts a woman,
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holding her hand or holding a braid of her hair or rubbing against any part of
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her body, commits an offense, requiring formal meetings of the Order for its
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exoneration.
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21. Buddhism. Vinaya Pitaka
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Because the daughters of Zion are haughty
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and walk with outstretched necks,
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glancing wantonly with their eyes,
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mincing along as they go,
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tinkling with their feet;
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the Lord will smite with a scab
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the heads of the daughters of Zion,
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and the Lord will lay bare their secret parts.
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22. Judaism and Christianity. Isaiah 3.16-17
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Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and be modest. That is purer for
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them. Lo! God is Aware of what they do.
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And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and be modest, and to display
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of their adornment only that which is apparent, and to draw their veils over
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their bosoms, and not to reveal their adornment save to their own husbands or
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fathers... or children who know naught of women's nakedness. And let them not
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stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And turn
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unto God together, O believers, in order that ye may succeed.
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23. Islam. Qur'an 24.30-32
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1 Corinthians 6.13-19: Cf. 1 Corinthians 3.16-17, p. 211, on the sacredness of
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the human body as God's temple. Paul is quoting Genesis 2.24, p. 252. Vinaya
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Pitaka: The Vinaya Pitaka is the standard text of monastic discipline for
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Theravada monks. Qur'an 24.30-32: Wearing the veil by Muslim women was
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instituted in the Qur'an as a practical protection against the temptation to
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adultery.
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A master has said, "He who beholds a beautiful woman should say, 'Blessed be He
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who hath created such in His universe.'" But is even mere looking permitted?
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The following can surely be raised as an objection: "Thou shalt keep from every
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evil thing" [Deuteronomy 23.10] implies that one should not look intently at a
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beautiful woman, even if she be unmarried, nor at a married woman, even if she
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be ugly, nor at a woman's gaudy garments, nor at male and female asses or at a
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pig and a sow or at fowls when they are mating.
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24. Judaism. Talmud, Aboda Zara 20ab
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The lawful thing which God hates most is divorce.
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25. Islam. Hadith of Abu Dawud
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The Lord was witness to the covenant between you and the wife of your youth, to
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whom you have been faithless, though she is your companion and your wife by
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covenant.... "For I hate divorce," says the Lord.
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26. Judaism and Christianity. Malachi 2.14-16
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The husband receives his wife from the gods; he does not wed her according to
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his own will; doing what is agreeable to the gods, he must always support her
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while she is faithful.
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"Let mutual fidelity continue until death;" this may be considered as a summary
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of the highest law for husband and wife.
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27. Hinduism. Laws of Manu 9.95, 101
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And Pharisees came up and in order to test him [Jesus] asked, "Is it lawful for
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a man to divorce his wife?" He answered them, "What did Moses command you?"
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They said, "Moses allowed a man to write a certificate of divorce, and to put
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her away." But Jesus said to them, "For your hardness of heart he wrote you
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this commandment. But from the beginning of creation, 'God made them male and
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female.' 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be
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joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.' So they are no longer
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two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man put
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asunder."
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And in the house the disciples asked him about this matter. And he said to
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them, "Whoever divorces his wife and marries another, commits adultery against
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her; and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery."
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28. Christianity. Mark 10.2-12
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Aboda Zarah 20ab: Cf. Treatise on Response and Retribution, p. 932. Hadith of
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Abu Dawud: The Islamic law on divorce is found in Qur'an 2.226-32. There a
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waiting period of four months is prescribed, to allow the decision to be
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reconsidered. Malachi 2.14-16: Christian and Jewish marriage is not like a
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secular contract which can be annulled at will; it is a covenant to which God
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is witness and third partner. Laws of Manu 9.95, 101: Divorce is permitted,
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but it is not done by virtuous people. According to Narada Dharma Sutra
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12.92-100 and Laws of Manu 9.76-81, a man may divorce his wife on the grounds
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of adultery, profligacy, procuring an abortion, drunkenness, malicious speech,
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or failure to produce a male heir. A woman may divorce her husband if he
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becomes a religious ascetic, is impotent, is expelled from his caste, or is
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long absent. A waiting period of one to eight years is normally required.
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You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.
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29. Judaism and Christianity. Leviticus 18.22
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The bodhisattva does not approach the five kinds of unmanly men in order to be
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friendly with or close to them.
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30. Buddhism. Lotus Sutra 14
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And Lot said to his people, "You commit lewdness, such as no people in creation
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ever committed before you. Do you indeed come in unto males?"
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31. Islam. Qur'an 29.28-29
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God gave them up to dishonorable passions. Their women exchanged natural
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relations for unnatural, and the men likewise gave up natural relations with
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women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless
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acts with men and receiving in their own persons the due penalty for their
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error.
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32. Christianity. Romans 1.26-27
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Mark 10.2-12: In the parallel attestation in Matthew 19.3-9, there is an
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exception for 'unchastity.' Current biblical scholarship does not see this
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exception as sanctioning divorce on the grounds of marital infidelity.
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'Unchastity' is not the same word as adultery; it is thought to refer to the
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incestuous relations practiced by some pagans before their conversion to
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Christianity. Jesus is quoting Genesis 1.27, p. 282 and Genesis 2.24, p. 252.
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Lotus Sutra 14: The 'five kinds of unmanly men' includes homosexuals,
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hermaphrodites, eunuchs, and those suffering from various kinds of impotence.
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The Sangha did not want anyone to join the order as an escape; it likewise
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barred from membership debtors who wanted to renege on their debts and young
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novices who did not have their parents' permission. Qur'an 29.28-29: This
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passage refers to the story of Sodom and Gomorrah. According to the Bible
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(Genesis 19.4-11), when two angels came to Lot's home to warn him of the city's
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impending destruction, the mob demanded that Lot give the men over to them,
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that they might rape and sodomize them. Lot defended them and offered his
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daughters instead; at which point the mob sought to lay hands on Lot, but the
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angels rescued him. Romans 1.26-27: The 'due penalty' probably refers to
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venereal disease. In addition, there is the spiritual damage to the
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personality of one who engages in such behavior.
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