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Taken from KeelyNet BBS (214) 324-3501
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Sponsored by Vangard Sciences
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PO BOX 1031
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Mesquite, TX 75150
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August 16, 1990
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PSYBOUND.ASC
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From The Psycholgy Forum
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COMPUTER BULLETIN BOARD
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214 368-5474
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SIGNS OF UNHEALTHY BOUNDARIES
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1. Telling all.
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2. Talking at an intimate level at the first meeting.
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3. Falling in love with a new acquaintance.
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4. Falling in love with anyone who reaches out.
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5. Being overwhelmed by a person - preoccupied.
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6. Acting on the first sexual impulse.
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7. Being sexual for your partner, not yourself.
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8. Going against personal values or rights to please others.
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9. Not noticing when someone else displays inappropriate
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boundaries.
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10. Not noticing when someone invades your boundaries.
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11. Accepting food, gifts, touch, or sex that you don't want.
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12. Touching a person without asking.
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13. Taking as much as you can get for the sake of getting.
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14. Giving as much as you can give for the sake of giving.
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15. Allowing someone to take as much as they can from you.
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16. Letting others direct your life.
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17. Letting others describe your reality.
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18. Letting others define you.
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19. Believing others can anticipate your needs.
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20. Expecting others to fill your needs automatically.
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21. Falling apart so someone will take care of you.
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22. Self-abuse.
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23. Sexual and physical abuse.
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24. Food and chemical abuse.
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If you have comments or other information relating to such topics as
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this paper covers, please upload to KeelyNet or send to the Vangard
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Sciences address as listed on the first page. Thank you for your
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consideration, interest and support.
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Jerry W. Decker.........Ron Barker...........Chuck Henderson
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Vangard Sciences/KeelyNet
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If we can be of service, you may contact
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Jerry at (214) 324-8741 or Ron at (214) 484-3189
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